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Q: Pains,first Time Havign Sex
asked by: xo_ash on July 9th, 2005
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My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time yesturday. It was the first time for both of us and on my part, it was very unexpected.I can say, it wasnt really enjoyable for me and I didnt get much pleasure out of it.Im quite paranoid and a worry wart so I got him to stop after awhile.He even wore two condoms. Its quite embarassing but he doesnt know if he put it on the right way or not >.< he thinks he put the condom on inside out.Does that prevent it from protecting?He didnt cum but im aware of precum.Now im just a worried. Today I expereiced sharp cramps and im so tired.All this comes along with sex doesnt it?My period is suppose to start in 6 days.
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Sarah89
replied on July 10th, 2005
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Honey since your boyfriend used two condoms and pulled out before he ejeculated im sure you aren't pregnant you are just paranoid. My first time having sex wasn't that pleasurable either, it hurt. The more you do it the better it gets, but if you are planning on having sex alot I would reccomend getting on the pill and using a condom to prevent an unwanted pregnancy! As for the part about him putting on the condom inside out I really doubt he did that because that would be really hard to do, but if he did im sure it still worked and since he used two he had twice the protection. If you were pregnant (which I doubt you are) you wouldn't be having symptoms the next day. Just try to not worry about being pregnant because you aren't and it you worry it can make you period late or even make you skip it! Good luck!
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Kimmeh
replied on July 12th, 2005
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You shouldn't use 2 condoms at a time, the friction between the condoms makes it more likely to tear.

I thought you should know that if you are sexually active.

As for being pregnant I highly doubt you are.


Take care, and be safe :d

kimmie
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Gothette
replied on July 13th, 2005
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I agree with ^ 2 condoms will cause tearing, and some condoms come with directions. The condom has this stuff ( I forget what its called) but it kills the sperm. I dont know if anyone ever heard about how some girls want to get pregnant they turn the condom inside out when no ones looking and *finger* themselves with it. Well its impossible to get pregnant that way because of the stuff on it. But anywho, my first time wasnt pleasurable but it didnt hurt also about an hour later I had my second time which was more pleasurable in a way. :)
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justacanadiangirl
replied on July 13th, 2005
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That's only for condoms that have spermicide on them. Regular condoms don't have that.
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xo_ash
replied on July 16th, 2005
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Im becoming increasingly paranoid. I was actually somewhat relaxed and calm about up to the point when my period did not come when it was suppose to come.3-4 days late now since I was early last month.Normally, I should have ovulated already when I had sex 6 days before my period was suppose to come shouldnt I have? But now im late and scared.At this point, sex the first time around wasnt so great so im not all that tempted to do it again for a very long time and all this stress is soo not worth it.
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bt12
replied on July 18th, 2005
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It sounds like yall are a lil too young to be having sex, im guessing yall are 13 or 14? Im assuming this because yalls lack of knowledge...I mean puttin not one but 2 condoms on.....Let alone him thinking they were inside out. Now thats classic, I mean if he doesnt know how to put a condom on, he shouldnt be allowed around the female race...It sounds like yall need to wait about 6 or 7...I dunno...Years...Before yall try that again...Watch some porn in the mean time, it will help...Seriously...Try it...Oh yea, by the way, condoms come with directions, I always thought that they were pointless.............No offense to either one of you but im speakin to you like I would my own children...
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tennisgirl17
replied on July 27th, 2005
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Hey

congrats to all you who are pregnant. I am not pregnant but I did have a recent scare so I started to look into this fourm adn I noticed some of you say that your boyfriend used like 2 comdoms or multiple condoms but I learnt from my doctor that using multiple condomsat once actully increases the risk of those condoms breaking becuase there is friction becuase remeber it only latex. Hope I gave you some good info by the way what are your favorite types of condoms I personally like durex ribbed.
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bitesizeee1
replied on March 31st, 2009
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i just experienced this as of yesterday, me and my boyfriend both lost it to eachother(very unexpectedly) and for me it wasn't as enjoyable as i pictured. . i was too worried about him busting in me. we didn't use a condom which wasn't smart but im not pregnant and the scare has taught us both a lesson and we've learned from it and plan to be more responsible the next time it happens.
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