don't stress it untill you find out for sure. Seeing how your pretty damn scared you should learn now you should protect yourself. Not just him wearing a condom. Get on birth control. It sounds like you just got off your period, which makes it less of a chance you could have gotten pregnant. Just wait untill your period comes. Don't sress. Stressing makes your period actucally delay its self.

Im a 16 year old that got my 14 year old girlfriend pregnant. Its a good possibility your pregnant no protection,both virgins,he most likely came. Thats a high possibility of pregnancy but when you start pukeing and your test is positive your pregnant.

You can usually find out if your pregnant before you start getting morning sickness, in a few weeks go to your doctor and get either some blood taken or have him do a urine test, and if your not old enough to be responsible and use a condom, then you shouldnt be having sex anyways.

Ok dalicialynn I understand what yur sayin but I didn't come here to hear about I should've used a condom and blah, blah!! I already know this ok?? I didn't want to hear that from other people. So thanks for the advice but I had a period but I haven't been feeling good..I don't know what it is. Yeah, so I don't want to hear about getting a pregnancy test either..I know this to. I'm not trying to be rude but I hate 'adults' lecturing 'teens' about these kind of things. This is the teen pregnancy board..That's what we come here for!!! Thanks!!

Exactly and you can't expect every opinion to to be positive.

You came on here for advice, I gave it to you so get over it. If you would of used a condom you wouldnt of made this post anyways correct? Your asking people a question which you brought upon yourself, dear.

Obviously your too young and immature to be having sex.

These kind of posts aggrivate me.

dalicialynn is a teen, and you should listen to her advice. You hate when adults are telling kids to use protection basically. What is this world coming too. If you want to have sex you should be talking to your mother about birth control or something. Adults dont try to ruin everything for you. I'd be nice if they were more active in teenage intercourse discussions.

I gave her advice because there's too many little girl's getting aids and herpes, etc.

Like I said, if your not responsible enough to use protection, then you don't need to be opening up your legs anyways, if you would of used a condom, you wouldnt of even made this post, your mistake, you fix it.

I'm going to be a teen mom, even though i'm having sex as a teen I was responsible enough to be on birth control and even that, didnt save me.

Now days you have to be careful for everything.

true. I was just wondering if your mom is as upset over you getting pregnant as these other girls. I think you said she wasa social worker, so shes sees it alot?

I was with my boyfriend for around 3 years, we kinda grew up together. We lost our virginity to eachother and all that bullcrap.

Well his dad was awful and mean to us, he wouldnt let us see eachother and tried everything he could to keep us apart. 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant my boyfriend committed suicide.

Being in the situation that I was in, it was only right to keep the baby, for the emotional stage that I was in, it was a good piece of mind.

My mom...She's glad that i'm pregnant she tell's people more than I do. I think if I was in a different situation than I was, her actions would be different, but i'm not and this is how things turned out and how things were obviously meant to be.

My boyfriend was 16 when he passed on, he would be 17 now.

I'm going to be a 16 year old teen mother, I realize I have to grow up overnight, and that i'll have responsibilities that I never knew existed. But I love my unborn child, and i'll love what he/she becomes.

I'm young, but i'm not like a lot of teen's on here, I do use my common sense, and for that i'm never unsure about anything.

yeah, thats too bad what happened to your boyfriend. Thats a horrible thing to have to go through. I, for one, am glad your keeping the baby, and your mother isnt upset about it. Having her support helps alot.

I realize alot of girls on here have no idea what their in for, but it seems their are a few that do.

I hope everything goes well in your pregnancy.

Thankyou sweetheart

welcome. I dont mean to come off rude sometimes. I just comment on every indvidual situation.

Hey girls i'm really sorry about that post!!! I shouldn't have got upset like that but i'm having hard times with my bf right now & this stuff so it's really starting to get to me. I had a period on july 18th (it was a few days early) but still right now I haven't felt to good..I've been tired, eating more then normal..I don't know if that's cause i'm upset or what. Like I said my bf & I have been arguing & I don't know what to do about it at all..I'm really lost. I just wanted someone to talk to..That didn't really know all about it..So I dunno. Sorry..Also 2 days after I had sex with my bf I pretty much got raped by this guy that I know..And yes I tried everything to stop it but I was all alone & didn't know what to do. That's scary..Because if I am then what if he's the dad....My bf knows & he said he would be here for me..But with how things are going now, I really don't know what's going to happen with our realtionship..I really am sorry though!! Thanks

I'm not trying to be rude, i'm always straight up with everybody.

I don't understand why people post things asking if they're pregnant when it's no ones fault but your own, advice or not, you chose to not use a condom so you brought this upon yourself knowing there could be a possibility you'd get pregnant or not.

I thinks girls over react when they say they just had sex and they thrown up or they had sex and a week later they're eating more.

I'm 3 months pregnant and my appetite hasnt changed one bit yet. All that I have is sore boobs and a severe case of morning sickness that lasts all day everyday that ive recently gotten medication for.

You dont get sick a week, maybe even months after you have sex (if you are pregnant) I started to get sick around my 9th week of pregnancy which is more than a month.

As ive said a thousand times before, if you were worried enough about getting pregnant you would of used a condom, and if your not responsible enough to use a condom for not getting pregnant, and for the std's and aids people are carrying now days, obviously your really young and at our age guys aren't that faithful, you can say they are and disagree with me but you don't know what your boyfriend does when your not around.

Use the common sense that you have or you'll never get by in life, and will always make wrong decisions, you dont think "should I do this or should I not" for no reason.

I understand exactly what you're saying..Thanks. And right now if i'm pregnant..Then that's great..I've already thought about it..I know what teen mothers go through, i've been around them & seen how hard it's been! So thanks for the advice, and by the way I thought about all these things before I had sex..So I knew what I was doing!

So you basically got pregnant on purpose?

Do you have a job?

A car to get around if your baby get's sick, needs formula,clothes?

Or do you expect your parents to "help you out"

when I found out I was pregnant I thought my parents would hate me. But they both have actually warmed up to it and support me 24/7. I don't mean support as in paying for everything, I have a job and my own car.

What will you do about school?

Are you mature enough to handle such situations?

Do you know what the doctor does on your appointments?

He'll have you take your top off, he'll then look and feel your boobs and up your armpits, he'll have you spread your legs, he'll look at your vagina to make sure everything on the outside looks right, he'll then look at your butthole, he'll stick a metal thing in your vagina and open it up. It depends when the last time you had a pap smear, if youve even had one.

At the end of the pregnancy, he'll look at your vagina every week to make sure your not dialating, and everything looks okay.


You think loosing your virginity was bad....Hahahaha you haven't seen nothing yet.

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man am I glad I have a german doctor. I was told they dont feel for mups in the breast because you can easily get them when your pregnant. Its afterwords if they find them you need to be worried. I just got my blood and a papsmear.

But seriously, if you knew what was going to happen why are you scared about the first time you had sex, and why the [very bad word] wouldn't you use protection, unless you wanted to get pregnant? Not to you dalicalynn.

Ok, I know all of these things..I'm not stupid like a lot of other teen girls out there! I know these things..And yes I have a car & such & will be getting my license soon. And as for school..I'm homeschooled so I would still be able to graduate & do something with my life. Trust me I know all these things. As for the doctor..I know what they do..I was with my brothers girlfriend through her whole pregnancy with my newborn niece. If I did need any help there would be plenty of people there to help family, friends & the same with my boyfriend. Even if he did step down & not stay with me..I could do it. I know what that's like also because my brother is in jail until september & my family & I have helped raising his 2 children..I'm not dumb, ok? So plz don't compare me to other people that you've talked to. Thanks & have a great day!

You don't understand, little girl, if you knew half the stuff about raising and taking care of a baby you would of used protection, I thought I knew everything I needed to know aswell, I go to parenting classes to be fully prepared for any type of situation, it's 100 dollars a class, lasts as long as going to school!


You think you know everything you need to know, but you dont even know half of it. Why do you have a car if you don't even have your license yet? Your car has to be in your parents name, do you know how much insurance cost? My car isn't even in my name, it's in my dads, my dad pays my insurance.


Just because you have a niece doesn't mean you can support a baby. I have a niece aswell, she lives with me, but that doesn't mean I could support one, I know how babies act and how they throw fits, how they are needy. That's what i've learned from my niece. You have to be mentally and physically able to have a child before doing so, otherwise you'll be known as an unfit mother and like the case my mom had last week, this 14 year old got her baby taken away because someone reported her, they came to her house within 24 hours and there were bruises all over her child, her fault? Maybe it is maybe it isn't, point is, she's the mother, she still got blammed for it.



You can't rely on people when you have a baby, when the baby is balling it's eyes out because of gas or upset belly, you can't hand it to your mom or your dad, a friend. That's not taking care of your responsibility, something you created on purpose, not thinking because you're young and stupid.


I'm 16 will be 17 when I have my child, but my life is over and I know this and realize it, I have already said by to my partying,going out. I had a wonderful modeling career before I got pregnant. I still go to school, i'm not saying you won't finish it, but it's difficult to make time to do so, do you know how much daycare costs? It's 200-300 dollars a week here, you can't be leaving your kid with a friend or your mom, no one treats your kids like you do, your kid will end up calling other people mommy. My niece does to me and my mom!


If your not responsible to use protection, especially on your first time, then your not responsible to have a baby, no way, it's not possible.


You have a lot of growing up to do and you have your whole life to have kids, having a baby is a wonderful experience, but it's not cheap. Think about the hospital costs, you know if you have a boy and you want the baby circumsized it costs 150 dollars here to do so? All the doctor appts you have to pay for, including the medicine,shots. You're in over your head and you don't realize it.


Think about it, I gave up my dream for my child, a dream that was coming true, I don't have a choice, because I don't have the time anymore.