Hello,
So I have been suffering with this intestinal gurgling problem for two weeks now. Actually, to be honest, the gurgling only occurred on two separate occasions, and the rest was paranoia. But I KNOW how stressful it is. Only in the past week have I even begun to take baby steps to reducing the large anxiety FROM this gurgling. I read through numerous forums, actually I was obsessively looking at all forums, to try and find a "cure". It was terribly despairing to read of people who have been suffering from for not only months but years, when I was hoping to get rid of it in the next few days at the latest. I stopped eating almost everything that I had been used to eating, because I had read that it could be a gluten or lactose intolerance. I had lactose intolerance in the past, so I immediately cut out all milk and dairy products (though admittedly the only new one that I had introduced when the gurgling began was cheddar cheese and crackers whose second ingredient was "milk ingredients"), and, in desperation, I also cut out all gluten products. This was devastating for me psychologically though, because my staple food was bread (kamut, rye, and spelt).
To cut it short, I went to the doctor twice in one week: the first just prescribed me a laxative and stool softener, which had no effect on me at all. The second doctor did absolutely nothing except give me useless information that even my mother could have told me. That was the last straw for me; I had expected her to help me in some way, if not for the condition from which I was suffering, then at least something for the anxiety, but no, nothing. SHe claimed that the gurgling could maybe be a sign of IBS (though I read online that IBS is basically a way of saying that they have no idea what's wrong with you), though they can't be sure unless they have 3 months worth of data. So, saying how stressed I looked, she concluded that it's probably just stress, and I should try to find better ways to cope with it. This was such a depressing moment for me. I had placed my last hope in this doctor, and nothing, absolutely nothing came of it.
I should mention that this anxiety prevented me from attending class - the last intestinal gurgling episode I had during a class caused me to have a panic attack DURING that class. It was not something that I was willing to even test out anymore. I even had to take a mid-term in my professor's office because I was not able to handle the classroom situation. This new anxiety was also an additional weight on my already overloaded back, because I was stressed not only about school but about my part-time job which I strongly disliked. So, I quit my job a few days later.
This whole thing made me so depressed, because I felt so helpless not to mention hopeless. But I didn't give up. I went to a psychologist right after that doctor's visit for help with the coping of stress and anxiety, and the psychologist right away gave me a link to meditation audio and the suggestion to try tums for the acidity. She was also surprised that the doctor, even though remarking on my stress, didn't even suggest anti-anxiety medication. (I actually didn't even realize at the time how stressed I was, even though three people, independent of each other, told me that I looked very stressed).
Now, approximately a week after that initial visit to the psychologist, I am already feeling a bit better. So, DON'T DESPAIR. What helped me (psychologically) was to take baby steps (to overcome my fear of staying in a quiet room full of people):
1. I began by only attending classes that I knew were naturally a bit noisier
2. Wearing as many layers over the abdominal/stomach area as possible (I achieved this by wearing leggings underneath my jeans, a wool sweater and by keeping on my heavy, thick wintercoat). I figured sweating from heat was more desirable than loud gurgling. In this way, it also just looked like I was sick.
3. Props - i.e. something to do physically while you are just sitting there, especially when you think a gurgle might come (even though it might not). I used a large cup of tea for this. Every motion tends to make a sound, so even reaching, sipping or drinking the tea is an additional sound that can cover the gurgling. Now, my prop tends to be tums.
4. An Escape Plan ** - this was really key for me. I made myself a promise that if such and such a thing happened (i.e. gurgling), I would just leave. But I also promised myself that (confidence permitting) I would leave the class and just go to the bathroom if I only felt the onset of gurgling, or if there was mild gurgling.
All in all, these four things were simply things that have been helping me to regain confidence, and not be so PARANOID. The most important thing to keep in mind is that we are all human. Just human. Not invincible, and not perfect. Things happen to us, but we cannot allow them to prevent us from continuing on with life. After all, it is not as if I am sitting in class and might vomit or something like that. It is gurgling. Just gurgling. Any pain that comes from that is psychological. It's only in me. The key is to see the big picture. I also found it helpful to picture possible and plausible scenarios in my head of what it would be like if it were to happen, what would be ways to deal with it. Here are few things you can do, especially if you notice that someone is looking at you when the gurgling happens: ignore it; just shrug and smile; make eye contact and say "It's trying to talk", "Sorry, noisy stomach". Realistically, what is the worst that can happen? Embarrassment. But there are many things in life worse than embarrassment. The worst thing you can do is avoid specific situations in which the gurgling occurred - that is how phobias develop. Don't avoid quiet environments because of FEAR, but don't just plunge into completely quiet environments either if you are already fearful. Take it a step at a time. Every baby step is still a step forward.
I found that the reason I was getting so stressed about the gurgling was (aside from social phobia) due to my tendency to be a perfectionist - of striving to be somehow superhuman. So if you can let go of that even a tiny bit, that would help too.
WHAT REALLY WORKED FOR ME: 1)lactose free diet, 2) reducing stress by meditation and eliminating unnecessary stressors, 3) exercise (just a half hour walk a day and a ten minute jumping cardio workout from youtube), 4) staying positive (by having a supportive parent and a friend - when I told my good friend about it she was shocked because it also happened to her - so don't be afraid to speak up, you never know who fellow sufferers might be; and in any case, friends will always sympathize, which is very important).
Also, try not to become too paranoid. I know that this is hard - after the gurgling incidents I was freaking out when my intestines made any sort of sound at all, and was literally monitoring every audible sound. This is not healthy; some gurgling is natural.
Anyway, sorry for being so wordy (I can't help it), but I do hope that this will help another fellow sufferer. And remember: you are not alone. Others, as you can see, get this too, and IT IS possible to overcome it. Step by step.
I wish you a quick return to peace of mind and a properly functioning digestive system.