Hello! I had surgery about 4 weeks ago (found out I had 3 different hernias when originally thought there was only an incisional hernia to deal with).
Other than discovering I had 2 blood clots (that were already there, and quite extensive, and could have killed me!), recovery has been pretty good.
My belly looked massive prior to surgery, and I was delighted to have a rather flat belly after.
I now check the "flat belly" on a daily basis. I marvel at it one day, and I freak out the next that it looks "bigger." I know.....obsession....
Anyway, today I wore real clothes (not jammies) for the first time and I went to Breakfast with Santa, church, and Bible study.
I felt fine until Bible Study (the first two hours were painless). All through Bible Study I felt like my belly was being tortured by my waistband. Mind you, I still have an incision that is healing, but I can't determine if that is the issue.
Once I got home and changed, I have been paranoid. The pain I feel (after looking in the mirror to help pinpoint) is right where my incisional hernia was just repaired.
If I run my hand very lightly across my belly, the skin is sensitive and hurts a bit. However, I also have been aware of that burning pain I had already come to recognize as the original hernia's pain.
Above my belly button, the belly really does look flat (I guess I was meshed up quite a bit). Below the belly button is a little pooch (not a hernia bulge. The little pooch has been like this all four weeks and doc said it looked good last week). I don't know if there is mesh below belly button. That area seems to feel squishier compared to higher up.
So-to summarize after that long tangent....I am freaked out I broke my hernia repair by wearing pants. I felt fine until I had been up and around for 3 hours and then felt like my belly was on fire (outside of belly, not inside).
Am I over-reacting? Please say yes.....please.....