Q: Your Valued Opinions
asked by:
Darling
on November 17th, 2003
Active User, very eHealthy
Hello ladies :p
i beleive my cousin alannah has signed up here and although she may read this I really want to ask about some decisions she is making and how I should advise her. I have told her I was going to post and she gave me the go ahead. So here I go.
First she is 16 and a senior in highschool, very bright girl and i'm very proud of her. She will definitely be accepted to university this year. At the moment she thinks she *may* be pregnant and wouldn't mind at all having a child. Now on one hand I don't want to preach and tell her all the bad things about motherhood however on the other hand I think she *might* want to wait. However she has always been very mature, has a loving boyfriend of over 2 years whom our family loves, and her parents are ready to help her take on the responsability of a child. I truly think that she is just as ready as even I am but I don't want to mislead her. What do you all think I should do/say?
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