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do you think it is ok fo rme to date a married man. He wants us to get intimate and all but I refuses can I still go out with him or just forget the whole issue altogehter?
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replied November 17th, 2003
Active User, very eHealthy
Hi nictra,

it's completely up to you what you do. I guess purely dating this man and not getting into a sexual relationship all seems harmless enough, but no matter how much self control you have, feelings will develop, it's natural. This guy obviously loves his wife, or he wouldn't still be with her, you need to be able to accept the fact that he only wants one thing from you and that's all. He certainly won't let it get too serious or start spending lengthy amounts of time with you in fear of ruining his marriage. Men who cheat on their wives make me quite angry, as I have always believed in monogomy. Cheating is dishonest and if his wife found out she would be so hurt and her life would be completely ruined. It's really up to you to make your own decision nictra, but you need to look at the consequences and consider others who could possibly be hurt.

Take care...

Suzy
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replied November 17th, 2003
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Nictra
My advice is not to do it. There are lots of single men out there.

Why take a chance and have a potential mess on your hands by going after a married man?

Besides, he is just looking for some extra pleasure on the side and using you as a tool. He won't be able to give you any kind of security in life.

In the end, do what your heart says...
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replied November 17th, 2003
Hey Girl...
I would'n do it ! What goes around comes around ! Belive that and you don't know what crazy whife will get you back, it just looks like a lot of trouble and a lot of stress , that you can just do whitout !
But than again it's your desicion. Confused

Oana23
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replied November 17th, 2003
Hi
I wouldn't do it either. Just think if you were married, you probably wouldn't want your husband to do that either. Think about it before it gets too serious. Dulin22
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replied November 18th, 2003
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I wouldnt do it. Your helping him cheat on his wife. Just imagine that it was you and your husband was cheating. You wouldnt be too happy either
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replied November 18th, 2003
Extremely eHealthy
Get rid of him & go find a man who doesnt belong 2 some1 else
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replied November 20th, 2003
Do what you prefer to do. Just dont think this guy might be the one. He is married. Take it from me...A guy. By cheating he really doesnt care about his wife....He just wants play bc he is sexually frustrated...And he wont care about you.
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