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kidder48881

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I Really Need Help!!
Posted: 07-02-05 15:49pm

I am at a very very young age and me and my boyfriend tried to have sex....But he pulled out before he came....
Now I have missed my period, and my boobs are starting to hurt really bad, also I have to urinate more than usual. I cant just go out and buy a home pregnacy test....My mom and dad will kill me if im pregnant...I really need some help....
Am I pregnant or not!??!

Please try to answere me

- totally confused
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sandyallen

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Posted: 07-02-05 16:28pm

Hi there! Well, their is a chance that that you are pregnant as there is such a thing called pre-cum. I am sure that your parents will not kill you, they might be shocked or hurt. Take the hpt in the morning after you are late for the period. Keep in mind too, the more you stress, the later you period will be. Let's just hope it is signs of your period getting ready too start.
Sincerely,
sandy
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MumOfThree

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Posted: 07-02-05 21:17pm

I suggest that if you can't speak to your parents, perhaps you feel comfortable enough to speak to one of your friends' mothers.

Remember that your parents were young once too. They may have had pre-marital sex as well and may understand if you broach the subject in the right way. And if they get mad, remember that they still love you no matter what, but they are entitled to be hurt or angry and to try to teach you according to what they believe is right. They do it because they love you and they want you to turn out well.

Don't put off the pregnancy test. You need to know asap.
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cknbb

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Posted: 07-02-05 21:23pm

Do some calculations: women typically ovulate between 10-14 days from the first day of your last period. If you had sex during this time frame you're probably pregnant.

Do your boobs hurt when you're about to get your period? Take a pregnancy test too. Some you can take on the first day of your missed period.

Gotta tell your parents one way or the other. Choose who it's easier to tell.
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sxcgirl_me

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Posted: 07-02-05 22:01pm

Maybe you should get a test done and if you are pregnant, then you have to tell your parents.

I was scared of my parents as well.

When I told my mum she cried and said it was the end of the world.
And then ran off and told my dad and he didn't speak to me for a couple of weeks, but in the end they were supportive.

Your parents are gonna love you no matter wat
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sxcgirl_me

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Posted: 07-03-05 21:46pm

Oh come on, i'm not that bad :p

i think my opinion changes as much as my mood does at the moment.
But im sticking with that opinion cause thats exactly wat I done and it worked well for me.
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sxcgirl_me

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Posted: 07-04-05 19:50pm

Hmm didn't think of it like that!!!!
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Nicknack

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Posted: 07-08-05 08:56am

I know it may be hard but you are gonna have to talk to your parents...Because if you are pregnant you will show eventually....And even if you wear baggy clothes they might wonder. They might be mad at first but that's normal for all parents......I was never in your situation because I didn't get pregnant 'til I was married (i'll be 3 months 1 weeks from this sunday...Me and my husbands been married a little over 8 months)...
Which doesn't always matter......
But be honest with your parents and tell them you might be pregnant....

Or buy a pregnancy test and after you buy your pregnancy test if you have to take it at the store in the bathroom...Then if it comes up positve then bring it up to your parents.....
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