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Q: What Should I Do About My Bf??
asked by: confused00 on July 1st, 2005
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I've been dating dan almost a year now and I love him so much. He told me he had paranoid schizophrenia at the beginning of our relationship, however he was coping really well. Up until recently things were great. A few months ago he started to get really jealous and not trusting me. I'd go out and he'd think i'd be getting hit on and dressing up in order to get that attention. He gets angry with me and thinks i'm going to cheat on him. Then we'll talk and he'll calm down and he says he believes I wouldn't do anything like that. He's now in the hospital (mental health unit) after an overdose of his meds.. He almost killed himself.. However he took a cab to the hospital.. So it almost seemed like a cry for help. I'm scared for him and for us because I dont know if this will ever change. He makes me so happy when we're doing well though and I dont want to give him up. Does anyone have any advice or suggestions on how I can help this relationship and help him?
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confused00
replied on July 4th, 2005
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No responses? Please, anyone, tell me what you think. I could really use some advice from people who aren't close to me...
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confused00
replied on July 4th, 2005
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I'm also only 20.. He tells me I should go have sex with someone else in not so nice words, he's ripped our pictures up, literally beat himself up, accusations, everyones following him, testing him, getting info from me....
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down123
replied on July 4th, 2005
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Aww sorry hun...I really dont know what to say....Its just going to be a hard relationship for sure if you decide to stick with him. Does he have any other forms of support like his own relatives? I know it hurts when you care about someone so much...Keep us posted on your relationship....Is he still in the hospital?....Someone will reply to you sooner or later so keep checking and keep us posted :)
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confused00
replied on July 4th, 2005
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Yes he's still in the hospital. He also has a wonderful family. However everyone is depending on me.. Saying that I need to be prepared and he really needs me to be supportive and ready to depend on because i'll have to deal with this a lot. I just find that he's been drinking a lot which causes the meds not to work.. He started drinking after a few months of being sober and now he's back in the hospital. I'm so worried about him, however i'm worried about me too.. I just see him with no ambition to keep himself well anymore.
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vanessalouanne
replied on July 6th, 2005
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I would say not to stay with him because you feel depended on by his family. By staying with him you are asking for a really rough life but if you really love him then do it. You need to set him straight first though and make sure he wants to make himself better for you and the first thing to do it stop the drinking. Not only is it dangerous to you, it is also very dangerous to himself mentally and physically. I can respect people who know they have a problem and strive to fix it, but thoes who are on a self destructive path are sometimes unreachable.
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confused00
replied on July 11th, 2005
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Unfortunately, dan broke it off again and this time I just let it happen. He wouldn't accept me for who I was but wanted me to be who he wanted me to be. He would never trust me and he admitted that. So we came to a decision to go our seperate ways. It didn't seem like I was good for him, nor for me. It hurts like no tomorrow, however I pray he finds someone who he will eventually trust and love unconditionally. I thank the people for their reply's. Life has its struggles, we can all pull through them no matter what. I will always love him...
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karaca77
replied on July 11th, 2005
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Hi there confused,

please listen to me very carefully, never go to a doctor , i'll tell you why, I had those symptoms from the second year of my high school education and it was only two months ago thank to my roommate I was able to see everything clearly...You dont have any disorder or deficiency or any physcological problem , it is the spirits that are trying to communicate with you...With all you see, all you hear and all spoken , thruogh a code they are trying to get your attention...

-please dont discard this, if you are around nyc I can take you to hindu temple, take you to catholic church take to the mosque or meet with a few people in my office to enlighten you- chek these web pages:

Specularium.Org/index.Php?Option=com_conte nt&task=view&id=39&itemid=74

en.Wikipedia.Org/wiki/divination


what you are experiencing is called spontaneous divination, probably evil spirits are trying to lead you somewhere, mess up your life, or sometimes good spiritis trying to help you and in the end ask for something...


-it sounds ridicilous at first, I was atheist myself, but I had admit after so many people confitrmed this...---

i am trying to help , it is your choice to listen to me or not, I never listened before and now I have to admit it, I got the truth now ...


ps. They'll make him believe that he is messiah, or they are alien etc.. Be prepared from now...
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