Hello,
please help me with suggestions how to tell my boyfriend (without it being a hostile situation) that his skills in bed are not arrousing me and i've become disinterested in sex.
He thinks it's that I dont' find him desireable and sex, and handsome, etc..
I told him long ago that he needs to work on me more to get aroused.
Now the problem is, he really sucks and I just dont' want it anymore.
If you had this problem, you'd know how much of a problem it becomes in a relationship. I just dont want anything to do with him, sexually.
And i'm tired of pleaseing him when he hasn;t given me an "o" in months! It's just really irritating to constantly give in a hand job or what ever (which takes for ever) and I get squat! I'm just bitter because i'm fed up of getting nothing out of it all.
Please, please advise how I can tell him gently that is constructive and not blaming.