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Will I Ever Be Attracted to Some One Who Likes Me Back?

Hi ya,
well umm my self confidence is really low n I think im fat n ugly so when I have boys hu fancy me I find it hard 2 believe n hard to like them bakc as I am always questioning if im gud enough 4 them!
(the one guy I really liked dumpd me after we did stuff n really hurt me!)
@ the mo I hav 3 guys telling me they fancy me n its really hard 4 me to take it cuz of my confidence, im being pressured into picking one of them 2 go out wid but they are all friends & I dont think I fancy any of them but ppl have told each of them I like them n I cant find away to tell them its not true plz help me what do I do and how can I find a guy I really like hu likes me bk?
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replied October 3rd, 2005
U'll Find Ur Man..asap
Hi cuteamie see its all destined out of the blues u'll find a guy who loves you unconditionally. I had the same story till 20 years of age never had a gf and ws too shy to gals. But one fine day on yahoo chat I met some 1 soo special that she changed my life completely. Tho we both love each other soooo much but her parents dosnt accept ppl meeting online and falling in love :( I was going to meet her but suddenly everything seemed wrong my story>> But deep down inside I know.. I will get her back donno how and when.. I believe "if you love some 1 set them free if they come back there are yours and if they dont they never were"

heart break is the worst feeling and iam going through it these days but believe me.. Just be what you are and you get the man of ur dreams.Best of luck and dont get along with guys who just wanna use you. God bless
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replied July 14th, 2011
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If you're really young, which I'm assuming you are, you have plenty of time to find someone. Someone out there is going to love you for you, regardless of your flaws. Finding someone to be with takes time and it's a process of trial and error. That's the point of dating; finding someone who you would really like to spend the rest of your life with. Just because nobody likes you now doesn't meant they won't later. Don't change yourself. Someone will come down the pike, BELIEVE ME. Also, don't let finding someone be your top priority, especially if you're young. Let someone come to you. Don't go searching for someone, because a lot of the time, the right one for you may come when you aren't even looking. So just keep your head held high and don't stress over finding someone.
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