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Q: Left Behind At the Altar

asked by: Mommy_2_b on November 16th, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

Hi all. Most of ya know me i've got most my posts in teen pregnancy though. But for those of you who dont i'll fill ya in. Im 19, and 20 weeks pregnant with twin baby boys. They're my little miracles and I cant wait to have them to look after all day long. I take care of my 14 year old brother and have for the past 5 years due to a tragic accident that left the two of us as "orphans". Anyway thats not why im on here. This past saturday (november 15) I was supposed to get married to my fiance scott. We had planned this for ages and ages. The sunday before, we had a fight and he said he was going to stay with his friends until the wedding so that we had some time apart. So saturday morning I got up and went and got my hair done, it had snowed that night and there was a beautiful blanket over everything the sun was shining it was just sooo great. I went back home and started to put my dress on... Thats when I got the call from scott. He was in cuba with another girl. Come to find out they had met here at a bar and just taken off... I had to call everyone and cancel the wedding. 2 hours before it was supposed to take place. I just dont know what to do im in major shock I mean we spent years together and im having his children. I donno I just needed to get this whole thing off my back and tell someone. Sorry its long. Much love melissa

Last edited by Mommy_2_b on November 18th, 2003 07:01 AM; edited 1 time in total

Replies(6)

manda panda

replied on November 16th, 2003

New User

Melissa,
hon, my posts are long. Don't worry about it. Like I said earlier, we're here for you.
Beast wishes.
Manda panda

niceguy

replied on November 16th, 2003

Experienced User

Mommy_2_b

Hey melissa, I have twin boys. They are 6 yrs old now and are very cute and adorable and are doing great in school. I hope and pray that your twins will give you a lot of joy and happiness.

As for scott, what can I say. At least you know you didnt do anything wrong.
I think its extremely insensitive of him to fall for someone he just met when he has you and his babies are growing inside you.

I don't usually like to curse anyone, but I hope one day god will teach him a lesson and he will regret having done this to you.

Best of luck with the future..

phil dennison

replied on November 16th, 2003

Experienced User

This man may try to come back.R u n .First have your babies.Second get him to pay child support.Good luck! Wink

Mommy_2_b

replied on November 18th, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

I dont plan on returning to him im to busy looking after my kids and my brother to deal with scum like him much love melissa

saturn24

replied on November 30th, 2003

Experienced User

It may sound cold, but at least you found out before you said "i do." I still feel for you. I cannot imagine how you feel right now. But try to look at it this way, you can make it without him, and he at least gave you the two most wonderful gifts anyone could ever have. And this way, you do not have to spend months or years in a marriage that you are miserable in. Good luck.

honeycoco

replied on December 12th, 2003

Experienced User

I am very sorry to hear what happen to you but dont let it stress you out take care of yourself and those babies and then deal with that situation. He will get whats coming to him.

Chrystal

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