My Recent Ex Thinks Its the Pill Posted: 06-28-05 17:13pm
I have been going out him the same guy off
and on for eight years. He can't stand
the idea of me not being in his life. So
when I do break up with him he insists on
being friends and I end up over anylying
myself any way. The last time we got back
together I told him the only way I can be
with him is if he moves in with me and we
live a life together. Well the moving day
came and went, he backed out and said he
couldn't do it because he would be short
on money. It's not just the living
arrangements but he didn't ever take
responsibilty for any of his problems. I
work a lot and mildly early so on weekends
we didn't see each other. He'd rather go
drink with his friends. I think about
leaving him through out the month and
around my period I get to the point were I
can't stand how I feel anymore. He thinks
that the pill has effected my personality.
I think it's his fear of be alone. I
don't want a relationship anymore and want
my independence back.
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winky2
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jun 2005 Posts: 33
Advice Posted: 06-30-05 14:24pm
Since you are on the pill anyway and you
have bad pms I can offer this advice...
Skip the sugar pills in your pack, just go
to the next day 1 of the next cycle. Med
students, pharmacy students, do this all
the time, makes school less stressful not
to menstruate monthly. Studies show that
even four periods a year is plenty...You
don't need to be so miserable.
You can also look into an antidepressant,
though the former solution is much easier,
and no you won't get pregnant nor inflict
any damages.
When you're normalized and stabilized you
can make a better decision. You want
your independence? Guess what, it's
yours already, nobody owns your life but
you. You do have means to lead your own
way absolutely. Implement them, have no
fear. Get support from church, family,
wherever...
