Hey Guys I Need Some Tips Posted: 11-16-03 17:36pm
Hey guys,
i wanted to know what turns u on the most
when it comes to foreplay....Im trying to
think of different things to try out with
my guy and I wanna know from a guys
perspective, what really turns u
on...We're not having sex for a little
while, so its all about the foreplay,
kissing,touching, u get the picture...I
know he goes crazy when I mess around with
his ears,and he told me he'd go nuts if he
watched me play with myself, but do any of
u guys have any special errogenous zones?
I dont wanna have to ask him what turns
him on,it just takes the fun out of it, so
if u guys could give me some ideas id
appreciate it. Thanks!
vanessa
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phil dennison
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2003 Posts: 71 Location: illinois
Posted: 11-19-03 03:25am
Penis is the answer, it controls
everything
penis is happy, man is happy
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-19-03 15:38pm
Lol I like your answer. Bur vanessa, you
really need to ask him. If you go to the
penis it will lead to sex and you dont
want that yet.
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Doba
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2003 Posts: 2
Posted: 11-19-03 15:54pm
I am having the same problem with my
girlfriend. I find that when she gets off
that is what really turns me on. Playing
with yourself may work, but since he
cannot have sex with u, make him do some
of the work too. It makes it more fun for
both of u. And playing with his penis is
only good if the foreplay is right before
sex cause that is what he is gonna expect.
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Granps
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Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Arlington, TX
Oral Posted: 01-28-05 21:07pm
Try fellatio but be careful....
When it comes to hiv, giving a guy a
blow-job was initially thought to be a
safe activity. However, developing
research over the years shows that it is
not. It is a "medium" risk activity and
the virus can enter tiny abrasions in the
mouth, such as those from brushing your
gums and teeth before sex. Play it safe -
use a condom! That has the added benefit
of not having to taste the semen.
Start out slowly, touch the penis, stroke,
gently grip it in your hand, slowly moving
up and down the shaft, getting faster as
he becomes aroused. He may be producing
lubrication (pre-cum) at this time.
Then kiss, lick and start to suck on the
head of the penis. Flick your tongue on
the head, then up and down the shaft of
the penis. You can also kiss, lick, and
suck his testicles while stroking his
penis. Now, gently take the head of his
penis in your mouth and allow lots of
saliva to flow down the shaft of his penis
for lubrication. At the same time, you
stimulate the shaft with your hand. Go
slowly at first, then much faster, still
being very gentle because the penis is
very sensitive.
We all have a gag reflex at the back of
our throat, so if you take his whole penis
into your mouth, you will hit your gag
reflex and feel like "barfing" so, here's
the secret, only take the head into your
mouth, co-ordinate hand and head movement
into a smooth rhythmic movement. His
breathing and body will tell you when he
is about to ejaculate. Ask him to
indicate what pressure and speed he would
like. If you don't want him to ejaculate
into your mouth, he should warn you just
before he comes. Ejaculate won't hurt
you, but it is definitely an acquired
taste and many people prefer not to have
it in their mouth.
Once he has ejaculated, stop all movement.
His penis is super sensitive right then,
so just let it rest in peace. He will
thank you.
This will drive him crazy.. :wink:
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Justin_Toronto
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Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
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Posted: 01-29-05 08:31am
Its pretty simple actually. You have to
remember that men are aroused more by
visual things than touches. That means,
playing with yourself, strip teases, not
letting him see too much, too quickly,
etc.
Also, have a little control... When he
wants to touch, pull away and tell him not
yet. Hold him down a bit, and be a
little forceful when you strip him or
tease him. Just not too-too much so it's
over the top.
Men's erogenous zones are similar to
womens. Ear lobes, neck, nipples, penis,
scrotum, anus, inner thighs, upper back,
and pads of feet. The most important
thing is simply not to move too quickly..
Make him wait.
Good luck,
justin
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
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Posted: 01-29-05 08:31am
Its pretty simple actually. You have to
remember that men are aroused more by
visual things than touches. That means,
playing with yourself, strip teases, not
letting him see too much, too quickly,
etc.
Also, have a little control... When he
wants to touch, pull away and tell him not
yet. Hold him down a bit, and be a
little forceful when you strip him or
tease him. Just not too-too much so it's
over the top.
Men's erogenous zones are similar to
womens. Ear lobes, neck, nipples, penis,
scrotum, anus, inner thighs, upper back,
and pads of feet. The most important
thing is simply not to move too quickly..
Make him wait.
