Penis is the answer, it controls everything
penis is happy, man is happy

Lol I like your answer. Bur vanessa, you really need to ask him. If you go to the penis it will lead to sex and you dont want that yet.

I am having the same problem with my girlfriend. I find that when she gets off that is what really turns me on. Playing with yourself may work, but since he cannot have sex with u, make him do some of the work too. It makes it more fun for both of u. And playing with his penis is only good if the foreplay is right before sex cause that is what he is gonna expect.

Try fellatio but be careful....
When it comes to hiv, giving a guy a blow-job was initially thought to be a safe activity. However, developing research over the years shows that it is not. It is a "medium" risk activity and the virus can enter tiny abrasions in the mouth, such as those from brushing your gums and teeth before sex. Play it safe - use a condom! That has the added benefit of not having to taste the semen.

Start out slowly, touch the penis, stroke, gently grip it in your hand, slowly moving up and down the shaft, getting faster as he becomes aroused. He may be producing lubrication (pre-cum) at this time.

Then kiss, lick and start to suck on the head of the penis. Flick your tongue on the head, then up and down the shaft of the penis. You can also kiss, lick, and suck his testicles while stroking his penis. Now, gently take the head of his penis in your mouth and allow lots of saliva to flow down the shaft of his penis for lubrication. At the same time, you stimulate the shaft with your hand. Go slowly at first, then much faster, still being very gentle because the penis is very sensitive.

We all have a gag reflex at the back of our throat, so if you take his whole penis into your mouth, you will hit your gag reflex and feel like "barfing" so, here's the secret, only take the head into your mouth, co-ordinate hand and head movement into a smooth rhythmic movement. His breathing and body will tell you when he is about to ejaculate. Ask him to indicate what pressure and speed he would like. If you don't want him to ejaculate into your mouth, he should warn you just before he comes. Ejaculate won't hurt you, but it is definitely an acquired taste and many people prefer not to have it in their mouth.

Once he has ejaculated, stop all movement. His penis is super sensitive right then, so just let it rest in peace. He will thank you.
This will drive him crazy.. :wink:

Its pretty simple actually. You have to remember that men are aroused more by visual things than touches. That means, playing with yourself, strip teases, not letting him see too much, too quickly, etc.

Also, have a little control... When he wants to touch, pull away and tell him not yet. Hold him down a bit, and be a little forceful when you strip him or tease him. Just not too-too much so it's over the top.

Men's erogenous zones are similar to womens. Ear lobes, neck, nipples, penis, scrotum, anus, inner thighs, upper back, and pads of feet. The most important thing is simply not to move too quickly.. Make him wait.

Good luck,
justin

Its pretty simple actually. You have to remember that men are aroused more by visual things than touches. That means, playing with yourself, strip teases, not letting him see too much, too quickly, etc.

Also, have a little control... When he wants to touch, pull away and tell him not yet. Hold him down a bit, and be a little forceful when you strip him or tease him. Just not too-too much so it's over the top.

Men's erogenous zones are similar to womens. Ear lobes, neck, nipples, penis, scrotum, anus, inner thighs, upper back, and pads of feet. The most important thing is simply not to move too quickly.. Make him wait.

Good luck,
justin