Bit of a long shot and quite an embarassing problem.

So yeah im gay, hadnt had sex in a year and then went to see my ex bf. Came back with a sore rectum, which was understandable after a year of no sex.

Anywho wednesday rolls around and two lumps appear around my groin. I goto the nurse at my doctors and she says theyre my glands which means im fighting some infection or a virus. She asked if I was in pain anywhere else but I didnt have the bottle to tell her my ass was sore.

So the pains gone, the glands arent as swollen but now im still left with a sore problem (very tender and swollen in the top corner) where I think my bf possibly cut me by accident.

Its been like a week and 2 days now, should I let it heal or get some balls and go tell the nurse that I know why my glands come up - the only problem is she might have to have a look and that would be so embarassing.