I am 37 and just had multiple fibroids removed - my naturopath put me on a Chinese herbs formula Dong Quai and Bupleurum (as well as high doses of powdered A/C) to clear the excess estrogen I supposedly have.
The interesting thing is - over 2 months of using it I developed extremely itchy, painful and flaking eyelids, so I just found your posts!... all I remember is that I didn't have this pre-surgery, ever - and hence pre the formulas. So I stopped them and my eyelids have almost gone back to normal after a week.
It's strange and my conclusion is that something, most likely the dong quai formula, was causing this. It's definitely something to do with estrogen levels in my opinion which of course would make sense for you ladies experiencing menopause.
Perhaps see a really good naturopath and work out your estrogen levels with your GP if possible so you can combat it with the right foods and herbs perhaps. I don't think that the dermatologists are going to sort this one out!!!
I beg you to research xenoestrogens and stay clear of bottled water and non-organic meats and fruits etc - these things are messing with your system, try to detox them out. Also look into Maya Abdominal Massage on google - Roseta in Berlize. Something we never hear of in the west and it makes so much sense to me.
Hope my small experience may help.
All the best to you all!