Ladies,
So good to share in our collective misery! I'm 48, and would give my "kingdom for a hot flash"!

No, instead of usual hot flashes, I get itching from (literally) head to toe! My best girlfriend has nicknamed me "Pup" for the constant itching.
Two things that have worked: Acupuncture - within a few hours of the doc placing the small needle (looks like a tiny bandaid) inside my ear, the itching disappeared for several months. Secondly, since this last itching flare-up, (and let me tell you, I itch where it is not politically correct to SCRATCH!) my friend suggested Witch Hazel to soothe the itching.
Here's the best idea I've had so far: I put the Witch Hazel in a couple body splash spray bottles. One I put in the refrigerator, the other I'm going to start carrying with me. When the itching starts to flare up, if I'm with a client during work hours, I excuse myself to the bathroom and quickly spray my back, chest and arms. The same goes at home, except that the Witch Hazel is cold, so it's even more soothing. For those of you with the combinations of hot flashes and itching, this solution will kill two birds with one stone.
Give me some feedback if you decide to give this solution a shot.
Best to all!