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Q: Need Some Help

asked by: jondoe06 on June 27th, 2005

New User

Ok here goes......I am 22 and my fiance is 34. We make love almost everyday. My problem is when I cum I dont cum very much at all. I have seen the porns where the guys cum everywhere and my fiance says I should definately cum more. I only ejaculate at the most a tablespoon and a half or so and thats on a good one. I wanna be the guy in the movies and she wants it too. Any pointers or ideas? Also, when she gives me oral I can not cum and have never been able to from any of my old girls. I have been ejaculating this way since the start. When I cough real hard sometimes I have a pain at the space between my testicles and my anus. Dont know if that means anything. Any help would be greatly appreciated by both me and her. Thank you all.

Replies(3)

SteveB

replied on June 28th, 2005

New User

Re: Need Some Help

jondoe06 wrote:

i cough real hard sometimes I have a pain at the space between my testicles and my anus. Dont know if that means anything.

sounds like blue balls. Basically where you didnt shoot your whole load so its still sitting around. Nothing to worry about.

As for porn and not coming loads, its unique for each person. Porn stars are porn stars because they've been blessed with good looks and a nice package (usually). Comparing normal sex to porn isnt a healthy comparison.

Justin_Toronto

replied on June 28th, 2005

Experienced User

The pain you feel is not blue balls.

And it's healthy to ejaculate 1 tablespoon, this is healthy. If you'd like to increase your load there are a number of supplements that do help. Your local health store will have them. Tribulus and zma before bed will do wonders. Horny goat weed has also reported to help, although it didn't do much for me personally.

jondoe06

replied on June 30th, 2005

New User

I dont hurt during or after sex it is just when I cough real hard. My fiance said that 1 tablespoon isnt very much and most men cum more than that. I want to without having to buy pills or some other crap. Im thinking maybe something is wrong down there. I dont compare me to a porn star but it does seem like I would cum more than I do. Any ideas?

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