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Q: Help! My Ex Boyfriend Is Still Filling Up My E Mailbox!

asked by: shanti1 on June 26th, 2005

Experienced User

I am in a crisis, I feel

what do I do?

One of my accounts is free, so I can not block his address

the letters are not threats, just saying mean lies about me
and then just mean things about me
he sends the same letter over and over again!

I am freaking out now, why can't he leave me alone

i know he is hurt, upset with me, disapointed

yet, I can never be with him again, he has no impulse control
could have hit my brother in his moving car if my brother moved a foot to the left

i can not be with someone like this, I already gave him to many chances
because he has bipolar

no more, I am not a mean person, I have to put myself and my family's safety first.

No person is worth this hell

what do I do, if someone keeps wriiting the same email is that enough
to take him to court

the last thing I wanted to do was to involve the cops, that whole mess
i need to get my life back together
i suffer from depression, and I was just starting school again
looking for a job
getting a car, because I had to sell my other car for money reasons

i am a great person, and I am hurting, no one deserves this

he was writing I am a liar, I am being decieved, I am an alcoholic and drug addict, which is not true

i am in shock, my life has just turned into a nightmare
it is summer, the sun is bright, I am suppose to be having fun

life is too short for this nonsesnse

ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Replies(3)

pierced

replied on July 22nd, 2005

New User

Restraining Order For Harrassment

Get one. He won't stop. The average stalker is 2 and a half years. Or until he finds another victim. Been there and done all that. You need to protect you and your family and your right, you do not deserve this. He is mental and emotionally abusing you and disrupting your life. Don't wait inquire at your local police station in what steps to take in order to protect you from hassment. If he tries to physical harm you or your family do not hesitate to press charges. He's not worth it. You deserve better.

justapoman

replied on July 25th, 2005

New User

Ex-bf And Mail Box

Surely there is a way to not have his messages show up in your mailbox.

If you let me know which free email service you are referrining to/using, I will get that figured out for you. But there are too many free services out there to just give you a way of doing it.

I dont need to know your email addy, I just need to know which service you are using. I hope that this problem has already worked out for you, but if it hasnt, please feel free to email me

BPjoe23

replied on October 11th, 2005

Experienced User

Re: Restraining Order For Harrassment

pierced wrote:

get one. He won't stop. The average stalker is 2 and a half years. Or until he finds another victim. Been there and done all that. You need to protect you and your family and your right, you do not deserve this. He is mental and emotionally abusing you and disrupting your life. Don't wait inquire at your local police station in what steps to take in order to protect you from hassment. If he tries to physical harm you or your family do not hesitate to press charges. He's not worth it. You deserve better.

are you really just that stupid. How do you know he won't stop, people are ignorant. Who even said the ex is a stalcker? The ex is not "mental" :roll: people are so stupid with the words they use. But has a mental illness. If the letters are not threats then why even worry about it, just delete it and blcok his email address. Also you need as your self is it worth being with the ex, not I can not be with someone like this.
Anyone can be with a bipolar if they know how to work it out. Just don't get stressed out by it, why don't you go talk to his parents. Maybe he was just in a manic state. Have you even thought about how he is feeling, like you stated" I know he is hurt, upset with me, disapointed". I bet any body would write an email and be mean if they where upset. I can even bet you have wrote mean emails to people when you where up set.
The cops don't need to be called unless he has abused you or threating you or your familys safety.. Cops don't know how to handle people with mental illness I would talk to paramedices.

No impulse control :lol: are you sure about that, it called being angry.
It's possible he just needs to work on his anger manament skills, know that anger is a emotion and bipolar disorder is emotional. Does that make sence now?

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