Just wait I know you miss that stage but it would be hard to keep out with two little once

I am missing that baby stage too but I waited 2 years between my girls so I knew my first would be loved and spoiled. Plus by the time my second daughter was born my first was all ready potty trained so we only had to worry about 1 bag of diapers a week instead of 2

I was the same way, lol, I missed being preg as soon as I had my son. I got preg with baby # 2 when he was only 4 mo old. I love every min of it! If you are ready, I say...Go for it!

I've heard of individuals "missing the baby stages" before. It's common I think. If I were you i'd wait at least another year so that the one you have now will be a little bit older and possibly be easier to care for while you have the baby.

I'm 23 and due in october. For me i'm going to wait at least 2 more years before #2 comes along because I think i'd handle it better. Plus finances are an issue too. I'm not married but we just bought a house...And since we don't want to live in an empty house, we gotta think about money for furniture and decor.

You're 19? Think about what you want to do with your life first. Do you think you'd like to go to college for a couple years and get some education so you're more certified for a higher paying job than those who don't do college? For me, I finished my 4 year degree when I was 21 and i'm grateful that I didn't get pregnant during that time because it's hard to go back to school when you have other obligations.

That's unhealthy; wanting to create a baby just for that reason is disgusting and I suggest you go on Dr.Phil or something to correct that mentality in your disfigured head. And after you have the second child, you'll want another one for the "baby stage" experience, and another, and so on...



Do you know why china has a law permitting only 1 child per couple? It's because they are horribly over populated, at 1,306,313,812 people thats 1.3638 billion people breeding and over populating an already resource diminished world. And pretty soon, thanks to people like you, having kids at such a young age and without reason, the united states will be this horribly populated and quite unenjoyable to live in. Nobody in the right mind would have a child for such a trivial reason as wanting to enjoy the brief "baby stage".

This lecture may seem harsh, but it's the harsh truth. If you want to experience the baby stage go work at a nursery, hang out with some other parents who have a baby, become a pediatrician; just don't bring another mouth to feed to and consume resources in a world which the population of the dominating species exceeds the carrying capacity of its ecological niche.

You know what teen pregnancy is in this country? You know what every study describes it as? A problem. Teen pregnancy is a problem. If you don't know why its a problem then a)i can see why you ended up having a kid and b)you're already a bad parent.

Ah good old cpl_jj.. Can never keep his mouth shut as usual.. Why even reply to posts when all your gonna say is stuff people don't wanna hear?

read my hobbies :wink:

Can just about be bothered to read your posts let alone your hobbies!

ok, firstly I dont live in your country.
Im 18, and I have a 5 month old daughter, and no, im not a bad parent, and I wont stand for anyone saying that im a bad parent. You dont know each person individually, so you have no right, to call us bad parents.
Bad parents can be bad at any age, from 13 through to 70. Not just from the ages 13-19.

I dont see teen pregnancy as a problem, in fact its alot healthier to produce a baby between ages 15-25 than it is at any other stage. Where the body is still young enough to get back into shape, also you will get to grow up with your child, and not be dead by the time your child is thinking of having children, which trust me, no matter what age you are, u want someone in the delivery room with you, and a mom is one of the first choices.

I think you are totally out of order on what you said, just because you may have decided not to become a teen parent, dosent mean everyone else has to decide that too.

On another note...

I would love to have another child. I have lost one recently, and feel empty.
But also, I loved that tiny baby stage, I also feel that I missed out on child birth, as my daughter was born in 2 hours start to finish, for example, I was never told how many cm dialted I was, and my fiance wasnt there to share the experiance with me.

I will suggest that you can have another child whenever it is you feel ready for it. As long as you understand the fact, that you will then have 2 children, have to spend months with sleepless nights again, and still have to be aware that your elder shild will be needing you just as much as the newborn.
Im personaly going to wait now, until my daughter is a year old before ttc again, but mainly because I am going on holiday in january, and want spend my birsthday getting drunk, instead of being preg. As I was on my last birthday.

But good luck to you on whatever it is you decide.

instead of having another kid, why don't you ask the doctor how many cm's you were dialated? If something that insignificant can cause someone to have another baby, then I fear for the state of the world.

they didnt have time to check how many cm dialated I was....
You obviously have no idea about child birth, so I dont understand why u critisize people who want or have children.

why does it even matter how big your gaping hole was when your kid was born? Who the f*ck cares, other than you? It's so insignifcant, that it doesnt even matter, and it doesnt warrant the need for another child just so you can know how big your vagina was. Any fool off the street who knows nothing about child birth can tell you that.

That would be like buying a new car so you can watch the dealership put a "sold" sign on the windshield.

it matters alot actually.
U see, I dont know whether I dialated really quickly, or whther I dialted really slowly, with contractions I couldnt feel.
And this information is needed, because a woman who dialates to fast, can result in extremly fast labour, which then causes blood clots on the leg, which then can lead to death.
Everything that to do with pregnancy and labour is very important.
And another thing, I dont want a child, just because I dont know how many cm dialted I was, I want another child, because I enjoy being a mother.

And another thing, your "vagina" as you put is, does not get bigger... Your cervis does, which is inside the vagina, I really think you need to read some books or soomething, because you are so uneducated about this topic.

oohhh sorry if I don't know a womens anatomy perfectly, i'm not obesessed with trying to re-live a child birth so you can find out some mundane details, you stupid limey health forum. And don't you think if something was wrong with you, then the doctor would of told you that? After all, that's their job, and you seem to be uneducated on that topic.

*yawn* you bore me with your torrent of caca nothing problems, I think i'll go watch paint dry, as it's probably more fun that your boring ass

Remember cpl jj knows everything about pregnancy seeing as how he's been there ....problem

ooohh no! Someone called me an problem! What's a matter? Did the guy who got you pregnant make you get an abortion because he realized your just a stupid health forum and not worth the time? That's what it sounds like.

Seeing as how I have only been with my husband and waited until marriage to do so that would knock out your first caca insult and two how I have never had an abortion and never would...Ever. I have morals and a heart unlike you, who by the way is telling all these girls to abort their babies so why do you make it sound like it is a bad thing..Oh wait is someone being a hyprocrite again?

what makes you lie? You had an abortion you're too ugly and stupid and the guy who knocked you up clearly saw this and made you get one. It's so obvious. Stop trying to deny it. And shut up too, you talk to much