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Q: Scared/15/shy Erectile
asked by: phoenix_fkr on June 25th, 2005
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Right well im 15 at the moment at soon to be 16 and I have been having casual sex with my gf who is 17 and its scary cause it kinda is scaring me at the time of the condom everything was fine and then it just went and softened this has only happened twice... Please please can anyone help me cause im so scared im thinking I love her so much and it doesnt help cause shes insecure about herself and feels unloved and thinks its her and ive told her ive got a problem and its just so scarey cause I can imagine me getting older and not being able to please her im scared about this and really wanna get it sorted I dont know what it might be I dont masturbate often anymore, and I dont mean to offend but I can see this happening to older guys not at 15 and its just making me so sad...Please can like someone reassure me about this...Its so messed up cause I finished my exams yesturday and ive had a few problems at home and its makes me feel sick inside when thinking about getting it up and it just wont get erect...I really am unsure of what to do would be grateful if someone would help me.
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phoenix_fkr
replied on June 25th, 2005
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Once Again...please
Look yeah, im sick of people looking at this post and me keep coming back thank you to following people who do post (if any) im really scared and im one of those people who will search the net until I come across something like this and if you have the same problem as me please join up anywhere it doesn matter and get reassured cause it will take you down if you dont im truely scarred, I saw my girlfriend today and she doesnt moind about this and thinks it should like go away after 3 weeks cause she's going on holiday and i'll try and get over this...Please can anyone help me instead of just looking and clicking back on there window....
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talondarkx
replied on June 25th, 2005
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It sounds like what happens to everyone stereotypically. Breathe in, breathe out, and don't worry. If you keep worrying, you'll give yourself a psychosomatic reaction where you believe that it won't work and so it won't. It was probably just a freak occurence, a lot of sexual virility depends on your state of mind. If you're into it, then you'll perform better than if you're nervous. If you can masturbate, then it's just nervousness. If that's difficult, see a doctor.
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phoenix_fkr
replied on June 26th, 2005
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I cant even masturbate cause of of me worrying and when I like try to its just not happening...Im gonna go book an appointment tomorrow
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phoenix_fkr
replied on June 26th, 2005
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Right,
i reckon its shyness now....I just like well masturbated and it was ok it took less then 30 seconds to get up and I feel kind of better inside...When I was washing,i dont know if this has anything to do with it but the water was hot and it kinda burned it, but that was like a week ago and I was still functioning well and its just when shes watching me...And I have to do my bit....Its not as hard for girls....Damn creation.

I mean im still normal and cheerful and such but its just this problem I mean everything was ok I mean its not bad at home but at times I get a bit paranoid and angry, and well its just I feel crap now cause she has suggested to stop having sex now! And its like "but its only stress" and its annoying me cause shes like a girl version of me which is ace but I just annoying cause ive thought about this more over 90% then yesturday and the day before, also I woke up today and thought what an ace day ive not got work school is over now until I get my results things are good at home....Then I thought what should I do...

So I remembered my big problem (well little to be precise) its funny how you can take the piss out of yourself at these bad times lol.... And it was like "damn...So I came in here and then went and just did what was natural and came back and feel different now.

Also btw thank you to talondarkx for replying I really appreciate it.
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