Ok me and my girlfriend had sex twice, one 3-4 days after her period ended and the other 7-9 days after her period has ended. The first time we had sex I used a condom but then she pulled my condom off and told me to go in bare. I foolishly agreeded but I made sure that no pre cum was on my penis and I jerked off to make sure that no pre cum would cum out. After 5 jerking attempts I went inside her for around 30 secs to a minute. After 15 seconds of slowly thursting I pulled out to check if there was pre cum. From my perspective there was not so I wiped my penis.. Jerked off a little and there was itty bits of pre cum oozing .. I made sure to wipe this clean and went in her again. This happened 2 more times of this pattern. The 2nd time we had unprotected sex I didnt use a condom at first but I made sure that there was no precum or anything of that sort on my penis. After I made sure there was no precum I went inside her and pulled out after 15 seconds and made sure taht there was no precum. It was kinda hard to tell because her vagina juices made my penis wet but I was pretty sure there wasnt. This lasted for a 1 or 2. But now I regret everything I did and I am very scared and frighten. I just need some guidance because I love her and getting her pregangt is the worst thing that could happen. This is the worst decisions I made in my life.. Please dont ridicule me because I already know the situation im in. I just need to know the likelyhood of her gettin pregangt and other mischilanous information that could be helpful and ease my nerves. Thanks.
Seems like you were pretty careful about not cumming in her, yes there is always that itty bitty chance, but for almost a year my boyfriend and I used the 'pull out method" with no other protection, yes it was scary sometimes, but I never got pregnant. Though being tired of worrying and knowing we wernt being responsible I decided to go on birth control, (my boyfriend hates condoms and does not enjoy sex with one on) birth control was the best thing for me to do, and the way it sounds is that your girl friend doesnt like the feeling of condoms, I know I dont like condoms either, I definatly prefer the bareness, so if you both are clean of any stds tell her if you want to continue having sex without a condom that she needs to go on birth control, and things will be a lot better, the chances of her being pregnant now are very un likely, but if she misses her period you know the drill, just take a test. Best of luck, keep us posted! : )
Thanks for your encouraging words! Hehe it made me feel much better about this whole situatuion.. Do you know where I could get bc pills? Which brand would be the best? How often do she take them .. Everytime right after sex? How old do you have to be?
I would suggest having her call plan parenthood, (if shes under the age of 18) because she can get them through this clinic without her parents knowing, if she is over 18 or doesnt mind telling her parents, then she can just go to her doctor. I suggest going on ortho tri-cyclen lo, its done great for me, and plan parenthood would most likely choose this one for her anyways. Birth control pills you take once everyday at the same time! This is very important and you must be very responsible with it, she has to pick a time in the day or night, and take one pill everyday at that same time. When you miss pills or are very late taking them you have a bigger chance at her getting pregnant if you have sex. Plan parenthood gave them to me for free, they gave me over a years supply. It all depends on if she can qualify for it, and im not sure what state you live in. But this is all knoweledge based on my experience. How old are you guys, and what state are you in? :)
Go to planparenthood.Com and search for the clinic nearest you. Then call and set up and appt. Just for a heads up you might be on the hold on the phone for a while, because I sure was when I called. You should have your gf call though, they will think its a little weird if you call and set up an appt. For birth control. Well best of luck and feel free to post if you have any further questions! : )
Man im gettin scared...I think she was suppsoed to start today or tommorw or yesterday or sometime this week and shes not..She started to discharge red/light brown stuff and she went to the club last nite and her breasts are sore..Im so scared
Man im really scared...Im sweating and gettin panic attacks we probably sdtill have 1 or 2 days left I ono but im really scared...Her breasts were sore on sunday and she let out discharge...She says her breats usally get sore and she usually getes discharge when she is about to be on her period also at sunday she was the club and danced for 4.5 hours...And now her whole body is sore..Is this a sign?
Thanks ... I found out some good news though.. She started on june 12th and ended on june 17th..Which means shew ill start 28 laters which is jul15th..Thats good right? And she says she always lets out clear brown discharge and now her breasts arent tender anymore
Well that's good. Now i'll bet u've learned from this experience haven't u? Do what u feel comfortable with. And as long as u can handle the consequences then go for it. Just be more careful next time ok? Good luck hun!
ok i can relate..im 15 years old and my parents belive im a virgin.
but may 21,2008 i took my boyfriends virginity.. and not thinking i didnt grab a condom and he didnt know when to pull out..it has been 2 weeks to this day..i had a period But it was only 4 days and i barley bleed.
im haveing all the symthoms but im so um sure what to do..
my family would tripp and so would his. im so confused about what i should do..can someone help.
it would be muchly thanked!
i dont want 2 scare u but this happend 2 me. My ex-boyfriend and i had unprotected relations during a whole yr n he always did what u said, but 1 time it didnt wrk at all, i got pregnant and it changed my life. i didnt want d baby, i was not with that guy. But i guess everything happens 4 a reason n u cant change it. i know all my life changed n now i have a 3yr old boy that means d world 2 me, ill give my life 4 him in a heart beat. dont think she is pregnant just b calm n relaxd they say if u worry so much it maybe that she is. just let it go cuz she is probably not if she knows her oviolation time n u should now those days 2. hey a mans sperm stays in a womans body for 4 days then it comes out as fluids.