Why do u want to make it down while everybody wants to make it up n up :lol: . Considering that u r in public. Yee then it may hurt. Especially if someone sees u while trying to pull it down. :oops: . Maybe the best way is thinking about the worst event in your life, death of a relative...Or just let it time... ı have seen a really big thing. (dont think that I m happy :cry: ) ıt was visible through the trousers. Really big one. The man was quite relaxed. Seemingly he was unaware of it. But around there were some girls. And I have realised only one girl who was staring at that point. She couldnt take her eyes away. I m not blaming her or noone. I have also looked for sometime but no staring. So let it time. It may hurt a little bit but it might be a good show for someone. Or just take the flame out of it before going out. But if there is too much flame inside, it will continue to hurt not only u but also some people around... :shock: