Hello, i'm not sure if anyone read my other thread about me coming off of birth control to see if my periods will be normal. Anyway, it has been about 2 1/2 weeks since my last period, and now i'm just waiting around for my next one. I realize that it will probably take a while to get it, and that's okay, but the thing is, it's really hard to remain abstinate for however long it will take to get my next period. (when I get it, I will go back on the pill).

My question is, if my boyfriend and I only have sex like once a month and use condoms and he pulls out with a condom on, is that going to be a pretty safe way of not getting pregnant, or should we just wait?