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Q: Does This Bother You Girls?
asked by: samy444 on June 21st, 2005
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I am a guy 28 years, I dont have a really long experience in sex, but I have one problem that I need girls opinion in it, my hands get really sweaty during sex which make me uncomfortable touching my girl`s body.
I wonder does this bother the girl if she to be touched by sweaty hands?
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Sammy001
replied on June 21st, 2005
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When someone is hot and sweaty during intercourse...It is all the more sexy...It shows your into it... Don't worry about it..
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samy444
replied on June 21st, 2005
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The thing is , it is only my hands that sweat, while touching her "down there" it is no problem because it is wet there any way, but while touching her body (which is a very important thing to turn her on) my hands get sweaty that it may make her skin wet.

Did anyone experience this before, or it is only me??
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Unhappy and unsure
replied on June 21st, 2005
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Hey samy444
during sex the woman's body temperature rises anyways and generally feels warmer...Your damp hands might not even be noticable compared to her own hot skin. She's probably focused on how good your making her feel, not how dry your hands are.
If you're really worried, however, try tracing her body with ice during sex. The cold wetness of the ice will be a turn on to her, and as it melts everything gets wet from the water anyways.
Its win/win! =)
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samy444
replied on June 21st, 2005
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Thats a really good idea, the point is to make everything wet so my sweaty hands wont affect anything.

Anyone else has more ideas for me??
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Lisa01443
replied on June 21st, 2005
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Swety hand are good it makes us feel like you are loving the experiance so dont worry it'll be ok, actually she prob does it as well feel her hands lol 8)
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samy444
replied on June 21st, 2005
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Thanks lisa for your reply
it make me feel more confident I guess (i need that ;)), just also I will play down there a lot so that the wettness will appear as if it coming from her juices (cheating.....)

so getting hand sweat happens sometimes?? It doesnt sound a strange thing?
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Unhappy and unsure
replied on June 21st, 2005
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Yeah hand sweat happens and its really not a big deal.
If you're close enough to get intimate with someone im sure they wont notice or care about it.
Besides, sammy001 and lisa01443 are right...It makes us feel like you're into us and are really affected and turned on by us. A very good thing lol
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samy444
replied on June 21st, 2005
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You girls are really very nice....


I didnt expect these kind of replys , I was expecting something like "go see a doctor" , but looks like I will start to look at this issue with a different aspect and try to make use of it, you will never believe how this problem was depressing me sometimes in the past....


One more thing, concerning the smell, do girls like perfume smell during sex? Or normal deodorant? Or nothing at all only clean smell?
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Unhappy and unsure
replied on June 21st, 2005
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I personally dont think it matters much as long as it isnt foul lol
i have been with a partner just out of the shower, after a long day's work, and amost anytime in btw. If she's excited enough to be aroused by you and want to have sex, then I wouldnt worry about running off to put deoderant on. Just go with it.
Dont get me wrong, a nice smelling man is wonderful ...All im saying is dont worry about it too much. Even natural body scents can turn a woman on if you forgot to put cologne on lol
*hugz*
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sunnybrook_farm2004
replied on June 21st, 2005
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Its No Bother
Sweaty hand are nothin ive had guys with sweat pouring off there forheads befor. I just mean your really really into it. Dont worry we dont think about sweaty hands during that time trust me
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sunnybrook_farm2004
replied on June 21st, 2005
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Its No Bother
Sweaty hand are nothin ive had guys with sweat pouring off there forheads befor. I just mean your really really into it. Dont worry we dont think about sweaty hands during that time trust me
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samy444
replied on June 21st, 2005
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I imagine that these kind of things "sweaty hands" would show that the guy is not enough confident, so I guess this can turn the girl off as I know that girls like confident men, but in my case it is not because I am not confident it is just my nature, the hard part is the very begining when I start holding her hands and talking to her as a "preparation" before getting into action

wooow

sometimes it feels very bad....


What do you think???
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Unhappy and unsure
replied on June 23rd, 2005
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I know all about lacking confindence..Lol
if you're ever worried about it as its happening, just bring it up. Dont make it sound like a bad thing, just tell her that you're so into her and so attracted to her that she makes you get nervous a lil. In a good way. Tell her you would do anything to please her and that you just want to make her happy and that sometimes you worry that you might not make her feels as good as she deserves. Henceforth the sweaty hands.
Whether or not its 100% true (altho im sure it is), she'll be flattered by it and think yer the sweetest man on earth and it will make her smile when she notices (if she notices) it next time.
Also, by bringing it up it makes it less "taboo". It becomes something you can talk about and explain instead of having both of you awkwardly ignore it. Makes it seem less of a big deal as well (cos really its not that bad). =)
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samy444
replied on June 23rd, 2005
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Unhappy,

i think you are right, talking about the problem makes it seems like it is not a problem, this what happened with my first gf, I talked to her nicely and she said that I cant be serious that I think it is a problem, but because she is a nice girl in general I didnt expect her to complain about anything, thats why I asked for opinions here in the forum just in case she only want me to feel good.

And by reading all the posts here in the forum I found out how minor is my problem compared to others(erection, ejaculating, sex drive...Etc), which I dont have (touch wood ;))

so.....I am happy I am doing everything good except this thing

by the way, I am about to try a treatment for this, it is a sort of injection which should keep hands dry for months.......So wish me luck

thanks
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Unhappy and unsure
replied on June 23rd, 2005
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Good luck!!!!! Lol
=)
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