Unhappy,
i think you are right, talking about the problem makes it seems like it is not a problem, this what happened with my first gf, I talked to her nicely and she said that I cant be serious that I think it is a problem, but because she is a nice girl in general I didnt expect her to complain about anything, thats why I asked for opinions here in the forum just in case she only want me to feel good.
And by reading all the posts here in the forum I found out how minor is my problem compared to others(erection, ejaculating, sex drive...Etc), which I dont have (touch wood ;))
so.....I am happy I am doing everything good except this thing
by the way, I am about to try a treatment for this, it is a sort of injection which should keep hands dry for months.......So wish me luck
thanks