Ending a Relationship Forum - Will a Divorcee Ever Get Married Again??

Relationships > Ending a Relationship Forum > Will a Divorcee Ever Get Married Again??

Q: Will a Divorcee Ever Get Married Again??

asked by: RiseAndShine on June 20th, 2005

New User

I have been dating a 30 year old guy who has been separated from his wife for the past 14 months, they were only married for 6 months but dated for 6 years. They are still in the process of getting a divorce, the papers are all signed, all the mutual debts just need to be settled. He has said things in the past like "i will never get married again", "i don't mind have children out of wedlock", and on the totally opposite end things like "when you marry me .....". He is understandably insecure right now as he is still dealing with a lot of things right now. I'm just looking for some opinions in general here, since getting married one day is a real sticking point for me. I love him very much, and will stay with him whether he decides marriage is right for him again or not, I just wonder if I should hold my hopes up or not. Thanks for your opinions.

Replies(2)

force9

replied on August 28th, 2005

New User

the Answer to Your Question, From My Perspective, Is Yes.

Hi.

I am one such man.
The answer to your question, from my perspective, is yes.

However & assuming he's serious and is going to get a divorce, that your not just his support while he does and that he loves you..
You must never approach the subject.
He will, when he's good and ready. Sorry. Maybe not the answer you want to hear right now.

But as I say.. This is just how I felt and wanted to behave.

First_time_mum

replied on September 1st, 2005

Experienced User

To answer your question, yes. A divorcee will likely to marry again but it depends on what situation he is in right now. Divorce is one of the most difficult stage a man or woman go through. Some men/woman get over it easily, others don't. A divorcee will marry when he is ready. My husband is a divorcee and it took him almost 2 years to be ready for another serious relationship.

Learn About Us

Get Help

Join In

Do More

We comply with the HONcode standard for trustworthy health
information:
verify here.

The site is not a replacement for professional medical opinion, examination, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the advice of your medical doctor or other qualified health professional before starting any new treatment or making any changes to existing treatment. Do not delay seeking or disregard medical advice based on information written by any author on this site. No health questions and information on eHealth Forum is regulated or evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and therefore the information should not be used to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease without the supervision of a medical doctor. Posts made to these forums express the views and opinions of the author, and not the administrators, moderators, or editorial staff and hence eHealth Forum and its principals will accept no liabilities or responsibilities for the statements made. Schizophrenia health sitemap.
This page was last updated on January 1, 2009.
© 2008 eForums, Inc