All depends on if you love him.. If he has slept with a few chicks its obvious he doesnt give a medical question about you.. If he did, it explains that he doesnt care for you, or wants you for sex.. Like im in a 10 month relationship and would die if I ever got dumped.. Literally.. If I did or dumped her for w/e reason I would prob never be able to love ever.. Im soo madly in love with her.. Im only 14 but the way I fell is on a completely different level then when we just started.. Back to you.. It all depends on you.. You in love him or no? If you do this shall be hard.. If he has had sex with a few chicks literally all I can see is that he dumped you for sex, and just wants sex.. But if you really want him and was really in love with him I would give him a very good talk, and dont be all goody on him, make it serious.. Show him you really love him and are quite disappointed in what he did.. Keep writing :d

Well ive tried to ocnvince myself that I dont and that I ll get over him. And mabye what I need is just closure because im overseas and all I can do is wonder. My heart still wants him but he doesnt deserve it. I mean I talk to him everyday, flirting and talking for hours online but I know hes with someone else. He told me before I left that even if we broke up while I was gone and if he got with someone else he would come back to me! Ive closed myself to everyone here because well im deployed and thats a whole nother story. Everyone out here is just trying to get some. I havent slept with anyone else yet and he is the last person that ive been with so maybe when I get home I can get closure and just be single and lookin

Im sorry to hear that but honestly I think all he wants is sex.. Put it this way.. He dumped you to have sex right? So all he wants is sex.. That is absolutely disrespectful.. Im only 14 but I know alot about respect and grew up all around respect.. If my g.F ever showed off her boobs.. Trust me I would be giving her a long talk.. Even flirting with another guy makes me mad.. I was born like this.. Ganster town where everyday I would get beat up.. Now that im a bodybuilder boxer and hockey player.. I can defend myself right? Thats close to your case but with a complete different story line.. If I were you.. When you get back dont even think about him.. Go have fun get drunk get high w/e lol just have fun.. Trust me the #1 will come by some day and you will know it.. I know you rly loved him but if he did that to you he didnt love you meaning he wasnt the one.. Ive loved some1 before and I found out she used me for fame over the school bcuz I was biggest in my school.. Stupid reason.. I honestly think my g.F right now is #1 shes all I think about, I know im only 14 but I have never felt liek this in my life.. I havent even told her I boxed nor worked out lol and she says she is in love with me =) could be caca but hopefully she is "in" love with me as I am madly in love with her. But back to you.. I would go have fun dont even think about him.. If he wants you back tell him to stick his dick up his ass lol no dont do that just say the truth, that your mad he broke your heart and stuff, remain just friends.. I understand how much you love him and im really sorry but I figure this is the best way out of this.. Sorry if you figure im bad at giving advice :( plz write back

I know all about what your going through. I just got out of the army. I was engaged to be married when we got deployed and then after a six months of us being apart things didn't go very well. I was deployed for 15 months. Now iam married thea man who was in the same unit as I and he will be deployed next year. So sweetie it 's hard but what I suggest is that when you get back to the states you guys go out just the two of you to dinner or something. Test the waters again. If you don't like it then don' stay. But hey I know what your going through belive me it sucks really bad and even worse when your deployed. But just know that there are people out there like me who have been in your shoes. Hang in there, keep your head up, and be safe.