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Q: How I Get Out From This Situacion?
asked by: fiorella on June 17th, 2005
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I was with a man who is bipolar , ocd and personaliy disorder, he was incredible on the beginning , but after I was feeling something is wrong with him, always something weird, he lie a lot, he hide so many things.
The first time he did something in from of me , I was on panic, he cut himself, every time we fight he did something like that, the last time he burn his arm , but not only that he try to kill himself 3 times already and I save his like 2, after all those incidents my life change 100% , I was dedicate just for him, I was living and worry just for him, but my memories what he did to me on the past always was there and maybe I never forgive it , but now im not with him anymore, his parents acuse me im the only one guilty of his actions, I know its not truth, but made me feel guilty , don't let me talk to him , I feel desperate because I love him with all my heart, I start to feel very depress, I dont know what else to do, I start my teraphy I hope that help me.
Please any advice?
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silver_tigress
replied on June 17th, 2005
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I don't really think you have much choice in this. If even his parents aren't supportive of your efforts of trying to help him, it sounds like you can't really do much. I mean, i'm with a guy who's got trust issues and that, and it's taken me about 2 years to get him to totally believe in me. He is much better, but seeing as your guy has way much more to get over, and has parents against you, how much longer do you think it will be until you can have a normal, happy life with him? I'd say 10 years if you're lucky, probably never.
Anyway, i'm rambling...I'd say get out while you can. If it was me i'd make sure someone was watching over him in case he did something drastic, but never blame yourself for what he is doing to himself. It's in his mind. It's your life to live, don't let that ruin it. Maybe you could still keep in touch, but I say you should move on, however hard it may be.
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