wow im so glad all you people have replied to this blog. im 19 and my g/f is 18 and when we have sex she orgasims uncontrolably. i made her cum 23 times in an hour and even after stoping she had 3 orgasims without me even touching her. she thought she had problems lol but i told her other wise.. thx for the replys
My girlfriend really scares me with the number of orgasms she has. I have a serious cardiac condition, and can't even get an erection -- and can't use viagra or other male stimulants. But all she needs is digital or oral stimulation, and she comes over and over and over. I have lost count, but we have spent hours and hours in bed, and she doesn't get tired or too sensitive. I just keep kissing, touching, doing things to her clit, and she comes, over and over. I would estimate that in a three hour period, she has well over one hundred orgasms, some causing her to scratch and claw and lose all touch with reality.
Well, I would never have believed it before, but I do now.... my fiance has had over 50 orgasms in one session with me. In addition, I introduced her to a vibrator, and she has achieved similar results with it.
My ex-wife doesn't believe it's possible for a woman to have very many, I think her max (once) was 12. But my current girl has had orgasms just from me touching her, carressing her, kissing her boobs, even sucking on her knees. So perhaps some women's bodies are just more of an erogenous zone than others. Certainly some women are more "in tune" with their bodies (some can tell when they are fertile, some can't). To the poster above who can reach over 200... way to go! Now I have a new goal to shoot for, I hope we are able to achieve such incredible pleasure together.
When we are making love, she is seldom ready for me to stop until she has achieved at least 30 orgasms. And there have been times when we finished, fell asleep, then she woke me up in the middle of the night, ready to go again, for another 20-30 or so.
I think if I could do that, I would quit my job and just stay home!
Hey so i can orgasm easily but only once, and once i have im no longer horny, so no longer wet, this is really frustrating for me and my boyfriend, because he still wants to continue but after a while it starts to hurt. How can i make myself stay horny and have more orgasms. I need help sick of feeling like i can't satisfy my boyfriend. Please help
man are the one who knwos if the girl olredy satisfied or how many times their cum. if your expert you dont even need to ask the girl if their olready done. cuz your pennis will feel inside their vagina when they are very near to cum, while on the peak of cuming, and when they are near to finish. if you want to continue bring to orgasm ur girl just continue. until you feel thesame again thats the time that you can say how many times the girl cum.
Communication it the key to giving your partner pleasure. She is the one that knows when she orgasms, and how close she is, and what she needs to get there.
The age of the 'magical penis' that knows all and can cure and conquer all is long gone. Women are not machines where you just need to press the buttons in the right sequence to make us orgasm.
All of what you are describing can, and are faked by women around the world on a regular basis. Especially if you do not communicate well with her, she has all the incentives to just get it over with. As soon as she figures out what you want to see, she will give an Oscar winning performance every time.
You have to create an atmosphere where she will be willing to tell you what to do, a place where it is ok for her to say that she did or did not orgasm but it is ok.
Only with time will you learn your woman's tell tale signs that she orgasmed. These are different for every woman, just like what it takes for her to orgasm is different for every woman.
yes but woman orgasm. can also know by man by feeling inside her the involuntary reaction. even woman dnt now or what happening inside of their vagina where the only one knows that. we feel the inside your vagina hug our pennis or almost we feel very tightthat u dont even think that ur doing that. that is the voluntary reaction. of women going in to orgasm. but some girl can tell that they are already finish. there a lot of man dont know how can you satisfy women. with the girl reactions.
girl can lie wenever they are finish or not. bcuz wd my own experience. my girl b4 told me that shes not yet satisfied and i sad ur liar. bcuz i know ur than already. she just smile at me and say. can you do it once again. a love the feeling. and i doit all over again untill i cum and she sad this is my 1st tym to feel that crazy feelings. and that my only basi i know that my woman is done. bcus there a lot of girl fake their orgasm. that to make their mans confidence and feel embaras. even they lie
I'v been married for 21 years and only started having multiple orgasms (10 and more a time) just the last month. I used to have only clit orgasms, but through some recent personal growth and acceptance of my sexuality have for the first time experienced vaginal orgasms. I had no idea it could be so great! With c-orgasms they were so intense I could only have one and I was so done I couldn't even be good to my husband. I think coming from a religious background hindered my sexuality...caused me to feel embaressed by it. Today I even came three times while giving my husband a blowjob (that was after at leas a dozen orgasms earlier) - something I never would have thought possible.
How many licks does it take to get wife to cum?? Lets see..... one.............................. two .............................three .........mmmmmmmmmm.......................
...three?? Sorry i just had to say that.
I have spent a lot of years Partying (Having Sex and doing coke) and if i could complete relax when i was stimulated i could cum for an hour or as long as i wanted. I have made my self cum more then 6 or 7 time as long as you can control your body (and by that I mean totale relax.
I am a 32 yr old female and I have been in my relationship for 6 months..When I first started having sex in my teens up until about 2 yrs ago I had areally hard time reaching the point of climax.. it was boring and I had lost interest after the first 10 minutes of intercourse.. But since I have been in this relationship I have reached up to 15 orgasms in an hr session he pleases me in various ways and turns me on so much that often I find myself reaching my climax before he even gets to go inside.. sometimes all he has to do is touch me... my orgasms start off intense with the first one and lightens with the 2nd and then gets more intense with evryone after.. I was losing hope until he came along... I love it in everyway...we plan on marriage yaaaay He is a keeper lol... How did I GO FROM NO SEX LIFE TO AN AWSOME ONE JUST LIKE THAT???? NOT SURE WHAT HAPPENED!!!!
The post that linked a womens' orgasm potential to her being in love is spot on. I have felt waves of orgasmic pleasure overwhelm me when I am with the man whom we now share an incredible connection. I can go off very quickly when he plays with my clit. Usually, I feel my first intense orgasm within a minute or two of clitoral stimulation. These orgasms are very powerful and last up to 30 seconds is my best guess;). I experience at least 10 mutiple orgasms in a row over when he is inside me during intercourse. There is something truly unique in his "construction" that hits me over and over again in my G-spot and clit. He's a keeper-Lol. All my mutiples are intense and I literally get lost in the feeling. Afterwards, we just stare at eachother in amazement about what happened. As for using a vibrator, I go off within 1 minute and typically have 3-4 orgasms in say 5 minutes. These are the back arching, toe curling type that leave me spent and having difficulty trying to focus. We talk about our feelings and fantasy, which only fuels the fire for both of us. Yes, we are incredibly lucky to share this deep emotional and physical bond. Never experienced orgasms like that without the love bond. Never.
Sorry for the long time to reply. I can't say it was any one thing that helped me, but a combination of factors that helped me realize that God created me as a sexual being and that I was not glorifying Him because I wasn't being who He made me to be.
Some excellent resources for Christian women who need help in this area-
Mark Driscoll's "Peasant Princess" series. Listen and/or read it online for free. Best thing that ever happened in the church for Christian marriages. He has unfairly been blamed for the 'pornification of the church'.
The Marriage Bed online - both the ebook and forums are excellent resources.
Christian Nymphos online. A safe community for Christian women to understand and delight in their sexuality.
Also, just reading some romance novels with steamy sex scenes in them is a good place to start. I found that I needed to start thinking sexy to start feeling sexy.
I found the ongoing commentaries to be interesting. I've never had trouble reaching an orgasm. I should mention that I am 71-years old, so that you don't attribute this to the vitality of youth. About 4 1/2 years ago I discovered that I was capable of having more than the usual two orgasms per encounter that I had been accustomed to having the majority of my adult life. I met a gentleman that really knew how to turn me on and get me going. A typical encounter with him usually results in 15 to 20 orgasms. My lover always starts by giving me oral sex (typical 3 to 4 orgasms), followed by a variety of relatively normal positions. I always finish on top with really great orgasms. A typical encounter lasts 30-minutes (you can do the math from here). The orgasms he makes me have are the best I have ever had. Needless to say when we are done I am exhausted. We typically have sex five time a week, some times more seldom less.
I have had several sexual partners, The first few never made me orgasm at all. Then one was able to make me come once, but would come himself as soon as he saw that I had. After that there were several more who couldn't make me orgasm. Then I met a boy who I fell completely in love with, and he made me come up to 8 times as soon as we started sleeping together. After about 6 months, he was able to make me come around 30 times, sometimes without touching anything but my nipple. Usually after about 10 I wouldn't really want more, and they would hurt a little, but it was worth it to keep going. If I came over 15 times I usually wouldn't be able to speak for up to half an hour after we were done. I thought that this was unique to this guy, but I was wrong.
My current boyfriend, who I love to death, recently made me come 27 times in 24 minutes, and I could not speak after.
Its either because I love/d them both more than any other I have been with, or because something about me changed, and I feel more comfortable with it.
So... my main point. Is it normal for a woman to not be able to speak after multiple orgasms?
I have had as many as 14 orgasms within about 45 min (I might be able to have more, but did not desire to have more). Generally 4 to 6 are enough, but I could keep on going if I wanted. The first orgasm is the hardest to get (maybe takes 5 to 10 min of stimulation). Numbers 2, 3, and 4 (up to 6) are very easy. After that, it takes some imagination. As I said, 6 or so are enough. To get past the sensitivity issue, fool around in other ways for a min or two between orgasms and then if the clitoris is too sensitive, then touch it with more liquid on the fingers or with the hood covering the clitoris. I never really am finished. I just decide to have no more orgasms and start relaxing or talking or hugging. The secret for a woman is being with someone who loves them so as to not feel shy. Let the woman touch herself and show you how she likes to be touched.
In my case, I can have orgasms during intercourse or manually. I have only had about 6 to 8 maximum during intercourse. When I have the 14, the last few, I gave to myself.
I have no problem speaking after several orgasms (I always have them). Of course, my maximum at one time was about 14 (and everyone is different). In fact, I sort of like to laugh and talk afterward. The euphoria lasts for a day or two, even when I am at work. It gives me a sense of being loved and cared about.
I started having sex at age 18 with my steady boy friend. My first orgasm was about 2 months later during intercourse (I did not know what it was at first for sure because there was little reading material at the time). It was only after I read that a woman could have more than one orgasm (when I was about 19 or so), that I began having them. I think I read it in Penthouse Forum because, as I said, there was little for us to read and we did not talk about these things (except with our boy friend shyly at first). I am 60 now and everything works just as fine today as ever.
If it is impossible to talk then I would suggest talking to a Doctor. If it is just hard to talk or you do not feel like talking, then just go to sleep in your sweethearts arms and do not worry.