My Man Won't Last!

Has the frequency of your having sex changed over the last three months? Cos sometimes the period that my boyfriend can last differs. For example, when i'm on my period and we're "waiting", I tease him a lot and then when we finally got to have fun again it didn't last quite as long as usual because he had been so "built up".
Thankfully "didn't last quite as long" never goes into single digit minute time :) but it could be the reason??

If I tease him he gets so bulit-up it goes faster lol

I have the same problem as you! My man used to last forever, but now I am lucky if he lasted 3 minutes! We have tried everything and nothing has worked. He doesn't want to go and see a doctor because he says it is embarassing. I love him, but it is putting a hurting on our marriage.

Have you been able to find a solution?

If you go to a porn store look for a desensitizing lubericant to put on him under the comdom. I have also found out the trojan climax control comdoms work too. My boyfriend says it burns a little at first, but the first time we tryed them he lasted and hour. I was talking to other people and this happens to a lot of guys......They say it's cause their love is so strong for us......Try having him think about non sexual things

I think its kind of hot when your man goes fast.. I mean its like he cant control himself because he is so in to you.. I dont know maybe im weird. I know my husband can sometimes do that but he also holds back by just stopping for a few seconds and getting himself under control, then he can last for a long time. Maybe have your boy try that?

My fiance' has problems with cumming fast sometimes. I know its cause I turn him on and i'm very tight which also causes him to ejaculate quick. Sometimes he will pull out and chill for a sec while he foreplays with my nipples a bit and then he will stick it back in. Lil breaks like that can make it last a lil longer. He has a hard time if he doesn't pull out for a sec. But I love him and it feels amazing no matter how long he lasts. It also helps that hes very good downstairs ;) hehe

Yeah, my bf has to pull out for a few seconds too, otherwise he'd blow his top in about a minute ;)

he lasted longer when we used condoms, but now i'm on bc, so we don't bother with condoms... And that definatly made a difference in how long he could last, which is why he now pulls out for a few seconds every now and then.

I agree that it's hot that he comes so fast because you're tight or just sexy! I have a question... My pills (ortho-lo) say that safety starts when I take the first pill (well obviously not the first pill of the first month ever) but mid-way through that month, and definatly by the second month, you should be safe, right? I know this is a question better fitted for the bc forum, but while i'm here...

My boyfriend use to never last. But now he is so long, I have to stop in the middle of it because my legs begin to hurt. He use to last a ½ hour but now he last 3 hours... Drives me crazy. I start complaining after a while lol. Sorry im not much help. Your probably reading this and is like stop rubbing it in you stupid !**@! but yeah sorry.

My fiancee used to last sooo long but now that he is working away from me there are times that he almost blows instantly. During intercourse he will actually grab me and make me stop moving for a few seconds so that he can regain control and not get off so fast. This usually works. Good luck girls!

My boyfriend use to do that too lol... But that was because he wanted to last and not cum in me. Lol

Im sorry but am I alone when I say I dont like it when a guy lasts forever. I dont know after awhile if he doesnt go I get turned off. Anyone else like that or am I alone? I think like 20 minutes if on average perfect. Sometimes longer and sometimes shorter. Quick sex can be very hot

Men need to be teased but calmed down as well, my man loves a little vibration near his testicles or head when he pulls out but it's going longer and longer now because he is so determined to make me orgasm without the rabbit vibrator......We are both into toys and very intimate but we waited a while before having sexual relations to know what we want and that we are both experimental......He of course knows more but he unlocked my hidden truth. I used to tell everyone I hated giving blow jobs it was degrating...And I never would give them but when he puts a high speed vib on me and lets me suck his dick it calms him but keeps him hard while I work on staying wet for him

he was so excited because it was my call when we would start having sex and I just suprised him one night in a hotel. 10 minutes max for a bit now it's going on into 2hrs with lots of mini climaxes......Always get him off but now we need to find what makes me tick!!!!!!!!!!!!!