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Q: I Need Some Helppppp, Pleae Some Body Read This!

asked by: Carloscol on June 15th, 2005

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I have this friend that has always been there for me, she's the best thing that I have going on on my life right now, she cares very much and helps me a lot, we mess around a while a go, we had sex but we stop, but i've always treat her bad; is like I kind of like making her feel bad and I don't mean it, but sometimes she upsets me really easy, and I dont know why. We've had huge fights and almost lost the friendship, but when it gets to that point I just don't wanna losse her, but some way or another I end up making her feel bad, I don't know why I do that. If anybody have any idea of why i'm doing this stuff to somebody as special as she please tell me 'couse I dont.

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lyinginsilver

replied on June 18th, 2005

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I can't diagnose you, unfortunately, but you should talk to your psychiatrist about it because I know what it's like to not know what's wrong with you.
:( hope you get help!
Ophelia

tiffanyb

replied on September 29th, 2005

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Re: I Need Some Helppppp, Pleae Some Body Read This!

carloscol wrote:

i have this friend that has always been there for me, she's the best thing that I have going on on my life right now, she cares very much and helps me a lot, we mess around a while a go, we had sex but we stop, but i've always treat her bad; is like I kind of like making her feel bad and I don't mean it, but sometimes she upsets me really easy, and I dont know why. We've had huge fights and almost lost the friendship, but when it gets to that point I just don't wanna losse her, but some way or another I end up making her feel bad, I don't know why I do that. If anybody have any idea of why i'm doing this stuff to somebody as special as she please tell me 'couse I dont.

sometimes you do this because somewhere inside you are jealous.I use to be like this to my sister.Its abuse! You cant be like this and think youll always be friends.At times when we care about people and they upset us,we assume they are never suppose to make us upset,but life just doesnt work that way.And out of pain we reply in anger and hurt them back,not really intending to hurt them but just hoping it will
"show them, we arent going to be the only ones hurt!" well,you have to end this abusive behavor and really start being a friend.Dont hurt her,it only makes you feel worse in the end.Think weather or not you are jealous of her for any reason? If you are upset with her,tell her,dont attack back! You risk loosing your true friend if you do this.

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