Have u try talking to him about it, maybe he dosent stimulate u to haveing sex, u know a women needs to be kiss, touched etc.) so she can have desiere in having sex. Now if it's not that maybe ur hormons are not right sometimes that can cause not to have desire for sex......



Good luck :wink:

Tip of advice, less explanation marks. Try a full-stop next time.

I guess it's all about the position. Do you keep to the same position? Isn't doggystyle good for not-so-well endowed men?

For me doggy style sucks because he seems to always pop out. He is only about umm... 4-5in. Long and med. Round! I also need to know if it is okay to think about past flings all the time? Is it?I love him alot! But I keep thinking about how much better sex was before. Our lives would be perfect, if only we had it better in the bedroom. I did have a proublem with "myself" and the doctor put me on birth control to make me reg. Again. It has worked and i've been on it for almost 5 months. I thought that when every thing got "right" with me, it'd be better for him.

Maybe you should have him try some well don't know what its called but stuff to make the man hood bigger! Hehe. Also ive seen on sex toy websites penis extenstions that a man can put over his penis to extend it! Maybe that might just make you tick : )

Doggystyle is my favortie. Maybe watch porn and use oils.. Have him talk dirty to you that always works for me. Also ( I know I sound horrible kinky) talk about your most dirty sexual desires and play em out! As for doggy style being for thoes not so well endowed I totally do not think thats true. My husband is 9inches and has is 5inches around .. ( ok we were bored and measured) if anything we have to be careful it doesn't hit my uterus cause that hurts like a health forum! Good luck and if all else fails imagine your having sex with brad pitt!

How does your husband feel about all of this? Has he tried to put you in the mood more often?
Im sort of going thru the same thing with my live in bf. We used to have sex a lot (i used to keep track for fun and it was 50-60 times a month) and now he's lucky to get laid once every 2 months.
My problem has just not been getting turned on and feeling desired. I have low self esteem and love attention men give me, but for some reason I cringe when my bf tries to touch me. I think I miss the adventure and intensity of the passion and lust two ppl can have when they first become intimate (we've been together a lil over 9 years now).
Maybe if he showered you with affection more and tried to do things that you find erotic (whether it be watching porn to sensual massage) you would be turned on more?
Its maybe worth a shot.
Good luck =)