Hi, I'm new to this forum, but I would like to say that a lot of the advice some of you have given has helped me a lot. I had my first anxiety attack about a month ago.
My mom has had anxiety for quite a few years. Suffice to say, I never realized how bad it was until I actually had an anxiety attack myself. My mom has given me a few tips I hope will help some of you with your anxiety.
First, keeping a schedule is important. Hurrying causes stress, a schedule eliminates that. A sleeping schedule is very important.
Second, you know that little voice in your head that use to analyze every stupid little thing that crosses your path, you have to tell it to shut-up. Find busy work to help keep your mind occupied. My mom does puzzles. I meditate and took up whittling.
Third, when I get headaches and it's accompanied by a tingling sensation--kind of like there's electrical stimulation in my head--I take gingko-biloba. It helps the tingling and sometimes with the headaches.
Fourth, I drink herbal tea, the kind with chamomile. It seems stupid, but it helps me with the anxiety, the headaches, and the dizziness. I drink it twice a day.
Fifth, I do pilates and/or yoga when I'm not feeling too dizzy. Not the difficult kind, but the kind that emphasizes posture and breathing. They usually show it on PBS early in the morning. I find the next day, I'm usually not as dizzy. I usually do it every other day.
Fifth, I take a single aspirin and use a cold gel pack on my head when I go to bed. I make sure to take the aspirin at night and the gingko-biloba in the morning, since they both work by thinning blood. Bedtime is usually the time I get the dizziest. If I'm not feeling too dizzy, I don't take the aspirin.
And last, but most important, you need some time away from screaming kids. I have this nephew whose screaming and crying triggers my anxiety. I find avoiding him when he's having one of his tantrums helps immensely.
Doing these things and taking fifteen deep breaths--someone else mentioned it on this forum--when I get agitated, has helped me get through the day.
I'd like to thank all of you for helping me. Knowing that other people feel crappy like me helps me feel better. I knows it sounds terrible, but it's true.