Tough choice...No one can tell you what to do, only you can appreciate if it is worth taking the chance. Considering the fact that you have kissed a few times it is very likely for her to feel the same way.

I would suggest creating a proper atmosphere and telling her gently, not pressuring her in any way...Afterwards she may need a little space, a little time to think about this....You have to give it to her....However, make it clear from the very beginning that there is no pressure, that you are not really sure of what is going on as well and that if she chooses not to give it a try you can still remain friends and you will behave as if any of this has happened.

What do you say abut that?

I realize my message came a little too late considering the date you posted...But anyway...Maybe you'll read this...If so, pls let me know who everything went...

Good luck!

Hey, I know what you goin thru there lg. Im in love with my best mate who's a guy (im a guy btw) and I want to tell but I think he would hate me

For the longest time I have lust over one of my best friends that I ever had...I keep all this feelings inside...There was so much I wanted to say and when I said I love you I meant it in another way...I never told her because I valued what we had and I didnt want to lose that too. Years went by and I was unable to see her.Then this last year I happen to see her! With the same powerful love bond. We picked up right where we left off! I could believe it! I thought about telling her, but I didnt. And I never will now. Although I still dream of not quite as much or filled with the desire I once had for her! Sadly I havent heard from her in a while...I may never see her agian! Thats ok now for I have the one I love and this time he's here to stay. Before I met her I didnt know how to form deep feelings for another. That has all changed. I love my husband to be! I thought I would always end up with a girl but he beat them all to it! I can honestly say I wouldnt want it anyother way. He my love and the one to complete my heart and soul!

I am in the same type of situation!

But my best friend is married to a guy so she is off limits no matter what!

I am close enough to her that she is more of a sister to me then anyting else and I have said "i love you" but I always phrased it to sound like it was a general "your part of my family" sort of sentiment then the "i think your really hot and want you as a girl friend" sort of sentiment.

I am also really good friends with her husband so I just couldn't do anything to disrupt either of those friendships.

After a few years I did realize that I was attracted to women that look a lot like her... I even quit a job because I couldn't stop lusting after my manager! When I thought about it later I realized that she was almost a carbon copy of my friend!!

It is complicated but I decided that I wanted her friendship more then a relationship.

I am now contented with what I have! Two really good friends!

I am in love with my bestfriend too. We have been friends for a long time. and the feeling only started coming up this year. I have kissed her before and we fool around and she puts my hands on her boobs and stuff and we kiss passionately when drunk but i cant tell anyone about how i feel. she has a boyfriend and she is always taken. it hurts for me to watch and i get majorly jealous of her boyfriends... i want to tell her because I dont know how much longer I can keep it in.. does anyone want to help? what should i do?