I was with an ex of mine for 5 years 3
trying to conceive. Never got pregnant.
I had tons of heartache thinking I would
never conceive. (i have had previous
pid). Well..... My hubby now and I
decided to try to conceive 3 months ago.
I went to the doc lat month and found out
I was preggo. That was the best moment of
my life! 2 weeks ago we had sex the next
day I miscarried. Im still grieving. But
on the bright side does this mean I am
able to conceive now? I am so confused
and upset! I wanted my little angel so
bad! :cry: :(
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robyn229
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2005 Posts: 7 Location: Virginia
Most Likely Posted: 06-15-05 13:17pm
Most likely. You will get pregnant again.
But if I were you, I would wait for my
body to heal for a few months unless you
wanna start trying again, they say you are
most fertile after miscarriage, but if I
were you, to avoid another miscarriage, I
would wait a few monthss at least. Good
luck!
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Lisa01443
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 61 Location: Treorcy
Posted: 06-28-05 06:38am
Been there done it and got the tshirt that
is exact what happened to me. I found out
I was pregnant and had sex the same
morning I lost my baby at just 9 weeks. I
have been trying ever since last august to
have a baby but bugger all as happened yet
but do not fret it will happen
take care lisa x
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Kate917881
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2005 Posts: 113
Hello Posted: 07-20-05 14:38pm
When I read your post. I couldn't help
but fall back into my own scare.. I was
probably 10 weeks pregnant and also had
sex.. Within the hour I was in the
emergency room and the doctor stated that
at the moment he couldn't find a definate
heartbeat.. I fell apart right there..And
he said.. Before you get all upset.. I
have scedualed u to see your ob gyn
tomorrow and then go from there.. I
couldn't sleep and I just sat and blamed
myself.. But the next morning at the
doctor's office I was waiting on the table
and they did the ultrasound the doctor
said " wow a heartbeat of 160..Not to bad"
.. I know how much pain I went
through..And that was just one night.. I
can't even begin to imagine how you feel..
I wish you the best of luck ..
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Kate917881
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2005 Posts: 113
Hello Posted: 07-20-05 14:44pm
When I read your post. I couldn't help
but fall back into my own scare.. I was
probably 10 weeks pregnant and also had
sex.. Within the hour I was in the
emergency room and the doctor stated that
at the moment he couldn't find a definate
heartbeat.. I fell apart right there..And
he said.. Before you get all upset.. I
have scedualed u to see your ob gyn
tomorrow and then go from there.. I
couldn't sleep and I just sat and blamed
myself.. But the next morning at the
doctor's office I was waiting on the table
and they did the ultrasound the doctor
said " wow a heartbeat of 160..Not to bad"
.. I know how much pain I went
through..And that was just one night.. I
can't even begin to imagine how you feel..
I wish you the best of luck ..
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 07-23-05 23:09pm
Try not to have sex at the same time as
your menstrual cycle would have been if
you hadnt gotten pregnant.
At least for the first few months.
I have 3 live birth, but had 6
miscarriages of my own.
I remember getting to the emergency room
thinking I was only just over 3 months,
finding I was atleast 4 months (had a
period with it)
hearing the heart beat and then days later
delivering a living baby boy of only
approx. 1 lb and 10 ozs. They told me
they could not do anything for him, he was
alive, inadiquate hospital for his age.
This all came about after a night of mad
passionate love to my husband, it was our
wedding anniversary.
Just try to hold off around the days you
would have menstrated before you conceived
it may be life saving for your baby.
i was with an ex of mine for
5 years 3 trying to conceive. Never got
pregnant. I had tons of heartache
thinking I would never conceive. (i have
had previous pid). Well..... My hubby
now and I decided to try to conceive 3
months ago. I went to the doc lat month
and found out I was preggo. That was the
best moment of my life! 2 weeks ago we
had sex the next day I miscarried. Im
still grieving. But on the bright side
does this mean I am able to conceive now?
I am so confused and upset! I wanted my
little angel so bad! :cry:
:(
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i had two miscarriages last year :( they
were really painful, one of which was a
twin {sigh} that was the worse. The thing
is that I had sex with the first pregnancy
and miscarried two days later, and also
with the second one. The thing is that my
doctor told me that sex does not in anyway
cause miscarriages. I have a friend who
told me that she had sex thru out her
entire pregnancies and she has two healthy
baby boys now, so I don't know. I guess
it just depends on the person's body, and
how their cervix is made up. I am now 10
weeks pregnant, but when I was about 5
weeks I had sex and started to bleed. It
stopped the same night and I had an
ultrsound done the following week and I
heard my baby's heartbeat. But I decided
not to that again becuz I was so scared.
That same night my fiance & I didn't
have sex but we did plenty of foreplay and
I had an orgasm, the next morning I was
bleeding again :(, but just like before it
stopped just as quickly as it started.
Had another ultrsaound done a week later
and once again I heard and saw my baby's
heartbeat. Since then though I have held
of of anything sexually on not only my
doctor's advice but on my own as well. I
have heard that orgasm tend to contract
the uterus so I don't know if it affects
the pregnancy somehow. I guess
everybody's body is just made up
differently.
Now, I feel as though I am walking on
eggshells. I have another ultrascan being
done tomorrow and I am scared as hell that
the doc won't hear a heatbeat again. I
really want to have this baby, my fiance
and I were so devastated when we had those
miscarriages last year, neither of us
wanted to try again, but here we are,
almost a year later. All I can tell you
is what I have told myself daily: it is
all in god's hand now, and whatever he do
is well done. I learned not to question
his decisions after I lost my babies. He
gives us the ability to house and carry a
child, so whatever happens after that is
all up to him.
I say a prayer most days that my baby will
be okay and that I will have a safe
pregnancy and a healthy baby, that's all
that I can do at this point. I wish you
all the besy of luck when you do try again
and it happens :) take care & god
bless.
