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Q: Infertile----> Pregnant ------>miscarried
asked by: nana6262 on June 6th, 2005
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I was with an ex of mine for 5 years 3 trying to conceive. Never got pregnant. I had tons of heartache thinking I would never conceive. (i have had previous pid). Well..... My hubby now and I decided to try to conceive 3 months ago. I went to the doc lat month and found out I was preggo. That was the best moment of my life! 2 weeks ago we had sex the next day I miscarried. Im still grieving. But on the bright side does this mean I am able to conceive now? I am so confused and upset! I wanted my little angel so bad! :cry: :(
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robyn229
replied on June 15th, 2005
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Most likely. You will get pregnant again. But if I were you, I would wait for my body to heal for a few months unless you wanna start trying again, they say you are most fertile after miscarriage, but if I were you, to avoid another miscarriage, I would wait a few monthss at least. Good luck!
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Lisa01443
replied on June 28th, 2005
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Been there done it and got the tshirt that is exact what happened to me. I found out I was pregnant and had sex the same morning I lost my baby at just 9 weeks. I have been trying ever since last august to have a baby but bugger all as happened yet but do not fret it will happen
take care lisa x
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Kate917881
replied on July 20th, 2005
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When I read your post. I couldn't help but fall back into my own scare.. I was probably 10 weeks pregnant and also had sex.. Within the hour I was in the emergency room and the doctor stated that at the moment he couldn't find a definate heartbeat.. I fell apart right there..And he said.. Before you get all upset.. I have scedualed u to see your ob gyn tomorrow and then go from there.. I couldn't sleep and I just sat and blamed myself.. But the next morning at the doctor's office I was waiting on the table and they did the ultrasound the doctor said " wow a heartbeat of 160..Not to bad" .. I know how much pain I went through..And that was just one night.. I can't even begin to imagine how you feel.. I wish you the best of luck ..
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Kate917881
replied on July 20th, 2005
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When I read your post. I couldn't help but fall back into my own scare.. I was probably 10 weeks pregnant and also had sex.. Within the hour I was in the emergency room and the doctor stated that at the moment he couldn't find a definate heartbeat.. I fell apart right there..And he said.. Before you get all upset.. I have scedualed u to see your ob gyn tomorrow and then go from there.. I couldn't sleep and I just sat and blamed myself.. But the next morning at the doctor's office I was waiting on the table and they did the ultrasound the doctor said " wow a heartbeat of 160..Not to bad" .. I know how much pain I went through..And that was just one night.. I can't even begin to imagine how you feel.. I wish you the best of luck ..
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fatfamily02
replied on July 23rd, 2005
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Try not to have sex at the same time as your menstrual cycle would have been if you hadnt gotten pregnant.
At least for the first few months.
I have 3 live birth, but had 6 miscarriages of my own.
I remember getting to the emergency room thinking I was only just over 3 months, finding I was atleast 4 months (had a period with it)
hearing the heart beat and then days later delivering a living baby boy of only approx. 1 lb and 10 ozs. They told me they could not do anything for him, he was alive, inadiquate hospital for his age.
This all came about after a night of mad passionate love to my husband, it was our wedding anniversary.

Just try to hold off around the days you would have menstrated before you conceived it may be life saving for your baby.
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Mommie Dearest
replied on October 11th, 2005
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Re: Infertile----> Pregnant ------>miscarried
nana6262 wrote:
i was with an ex of mine for 5 years 3 trying to conceive. Never got pregnant. I had tons of heartache thinking I would never conceive. (i have had previous pid). Well..... My hubby now and I decided to try to conceive 3 months ago. I went to the doc lat month and found out I was preggo. That was the best moment of my life! 2 weeks ago we had sex the next day I miscarried. Im still grieving. But on the bright side does this mean I am able to conceive now? I am so confused and upset! I wanted my little angel so bad! :cry: :(

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i had two miscarriages last year :( they were really painful, one of which was a twin {sigh} that was the worse. The thing is that I had sex with the first pregnancy and miscarried two days later, and also with the second one. The thing is that my doctor told me that sex does not in anyway cause miscarriages. I have a friend who told me that she had sex thru out her entire pregnancies and she has two healthy baby boys now, so I don't know. I guess it just depends on the person's body, and how their cervix is made up. I am now 10 weeks pregnant, but when I was about 5 weeks I had sex and started to bleed. It stopped the same night and I had an ultrsound done the following week and I heard my baby's heartbeat. But I decided not to that again becuz I was so scared. That same night my fiance & I didn't have sex but we did plenty of foreplay and I had an orgasm, the next morning I was bleeding again :(, but just like before it stopped just as quickly as it started. Had another ultrsaound done a week later and once again I heard and saw my baby's heartbeat. Since then though I have held of of anything sexually on not only my doctor's advice but on my own as well. I have heard that orgasm tend to contract the uterus so I don't know if it affects the pregnancy somehow. I guess everybody's body is just made up differently.
Now, I feel as though I am walking on eggshells. I have another ultrascan being done tomorrow and I am scared as hell that the doc won't hear a heatbeat again. I really want to have this baby, my fiance and I were so devastated when we had those miscarriages last year, neither of us wanted to try again, but here we are, almost a year later. All I can tell you is what I have told myself daily: it is all in god's hand now, and whatever he do is well done. I learned not to question his decisions after I lost my babies. He gives us the ability to house and carry a child, so whatever happens after that is all up to him.
I say a prayer most days that my baby will be okay and that I will have a safe pregnancy and a healthy baby, that's all that I can do at this point. I wish you all the besy of luck when you do try again and it happens :) take care & god bless.
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