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Q: What to Do?
asked by: mrswilson on June 6th, 2005
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I am going to the doc today to see if she will put me on antidepressants, I need something to make me happy geez. I am tired all the time and I lack motivation. I just recently got married and aside from my husband looking at porn geez that helps! My self confidence has hit a bottom low. I know I am a very beautiful girl i'm told by him and others often and I use to model, but latley I just feel like i'm so ugly esp when he looks at girls I feel are more attractive. I'm constantly asking him if he thinks i'm pretty or fat. And i'm getting tired of feeling a lower standard of myself. I cry when I see he's looked at porn or some pics of girls on bikes, I cry when I think i'm not good enough and this is not me. My confidence level use to be alot higher and i'd like to be there again. Can anyone help? I've heard good things about wellbutrin. It doesn't help that he's leaving in about three weeks to go to kuwait for 4 months.
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itslowered
replied on June 6th, 2005
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Hello, I have never done wellbutrin, so I cant say if it will help you but maybe a therapist will be able to talk to you about your issues, and give you that confidence back~ and if it makes you feel any better I mean ive never been married but I look at porn even with my girl and we been together for 2 1/2 yrs so it could be natural for us men. I dont think hes gonna find any biker chicks in kuwait. Just stay up everything will be ok in the long run.
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Jemini
replied on June 7th, 2005
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Hi mrswilson
all I can say is that no matter what men are always going to look at porn and other women. But think about this, he married you. So there are things about you that i'm sure he loves and appreciate, there are things that you bring him that i'm sure makes him happy, and also your the one thats with him, not those silly pics he looks at on the comp or girls on bikes.
I'm in a committed relationship myself, not married, but we have trust that is one of the biggest factors.
If you two have trust then what is there to worry about? I know it may sound so easy to be saying this, but I have gone through the same thing, sometimes I still do that my self esteam/confidence can hit an all time low. But i'm on antidepressants myself and going through thearpy so i'm slowly getting there.
I too use to hate the fact that I had to leave the house each day to go to work or go socializing becaue I didn't want to be looked at.
Maybe go and just pamper yourself like going and getting a new hair style, manicure whatever.
So just remember he married you.
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mrswilson
replied on June 7th, 2005
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Thank you both of you it opened up my eyes a little. He did marry me not anyone else and those girls he could never have they're really not real anyways. Thanks guys. I love my husband dearly and know he'd never hurt me and I do trust him. And in kuwait i'm sure there's no hot chicks there lol. Thanks again.
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Baby200920022000
replied on June 13th, 2005
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Do you no mary wilson she is a teacher
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