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Q: My Boo, Is a Polygamist

asked by: etaka on June 5th, 2005

New User

I do not know what this relationship is all about.

I'm 22years old and my boyfriend 45.He lives with a lady in the house, but not married. When we first mee, he promised to me he's going to send away his girl friend to live with me. 2months, later, he realised his girl friend was pregnant for him. He told me nothing about his girl's pregnancy and I discovered it on my own.

He tells me i'm the one he loves eventhough he lives with the one inside.
He invested in a shop I now own, pays my house bills, and food.

I told him i'pregnant , and to my greatest supris he asked my to abort my baby.

I can'nt understand why he who says he loves me wants my baby out;
worst of all he never passes the nights with me.

Somebody please tell me is love or what to do.

Replies(4)

Staylor

replied on June 25th, 2005

Experienced User

Well

I hope your name is actually on the shop... I think you need to make a decision, who is more important the baby or the man that has another gf and would rather have a child with that woman. Think about it will he ever be with you or will he continue being with this other woman.

Justin_Toronto

replied on June 27th, 2005

Experienced User

Stop listening to what he says.
Start listening to what he does.

Actions speak louder than words.

Now, take this knowledge and reanalyze your relationship with him.

Good, now you've come to a new conclusion.

Justin

p.S. Don't worry, you'll find someone else soon enough. Be strong.

etaka

replied on June 28th, 2005

New User

I'm Feeling Better

Thanks for all your concern girls. My name is on the shop. I'm in love with this guy but not that blind.

He tells me he was not ready for a baby, but I think he's quiet happy being a dad. I wanna forget him but it's not that easy, and I doubt if i'll ever fall in love after him. I'm really lonely like akon sings.

Justin_Toronto

replied on June 28th, 2005

Experienced User

I'm not a lady. ;)

didn't realize you guys listened to akon down in camroon. Anyway, you'll fall in love again if you let yourself fall in love again. You don't think that perhaps he's not ready for a baby wit you because well... He already has someone else, and a child with her?

Stop for a second and put aside your feelings for him. Try to assess his feelings for you. He's with this other girl, has a child with her, to him, you're the "girl on the side".. No matter how you look at it, you're second in his book and the other girl is first.

Sorry to be so blunt.

Justin

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