Take the lead- he'll love it!!!!

Yeah take the lead...Be dominant...And explain to him how its going to be done!

But first, speak to him, be honest, a relationship should be found on honesty! After that, make it part of the sexual act...


Yeah just whip him into shape :)

Be direct... Ask him what you need.... A new way to enjoy sex is using human feromons during the act... The differents sensations are incredibles...

You know I changed dramatically over a year (i didnt sleep with anyone else) and my ex thought id slept with someone else during that break time as I was so diffrent.

My advice would be to sit him down and tell him you've been thinking about changing some things relating to sex - say you've been watching alot of porn and want to try spicing things up.

Talk through it with him, things you'd like and ask him if theres things he'd like to change too.

It's a shame that most men learn about pleasuring a woman from pornography where foreplay is nonexistant, and performing oral sex on the girl is minimal, where touching and licking and kissing is unheard of. Unfortunately, many guys kinda rush into things and perform very sloppy, because well.. That's how they learned it was done.

You know what you like, you understand your body, you need to bring him up to speed. There's nothing here about being dominant, and there's no need to "sit down and talk to him" which can be quite embarassing for him and may very well make him more self conscious and more sloppy with his sexual actions.

So what do you do? You lead him, when he does something right you let him know... Not by verbally speaking, but with the moans, the way your body twists, or you dig your nails into him, the way you tug at him. When he does something not so good, don't let any pleasure out. It's a simple, but effective technique of communication without speaking. Using body language, and sounds to direct him, to lead him. Take his hand and show him what to do, or even do it yourself.

So yes, you can teach an old dog new tricks... :)

Thats it!