Excitement and nervousness can go both ways on erection. I once was with at the time what I thought was the most beautiful girl ever I had been with. I wanted it so bad, that no matter what was done by her or me, I couldnt get hard. Eventually with ginseng,gin and juice, and then benadryl I was able to. It wasn't any of those products though, it was all in my head. Don't worry bro, you will be fine. As you get more comfortable you will be ready.,,,,7

Thank you for your reply. I feel kind of bad about not being able to get hard. The girl I was with already has a bf both of them are black I am white. She may be trying to recreate the movie "helen of troy" her bf knows about me and wants to fight me. She has a phone were she can talk to 3 or more people at once. And I have talked to her bf and a few of her friends. Her bf needless to say wants to kill me.

And she has a ego bigger than the solar system, when I was going home from her house she called me up on my cell phone and asked when I needed to be back. I told her 10:00 and she said "i don't want you getting in trouble I know I am special and all but please don't get in trouble. Also when we were having sex she was talking on the phone. And to top it all off when she called me when I got home I told her I needed to go to bed. She was like "fine, forget you!" and then hung up. The funny part is she does not understand how I must have felt when she was useing the phone when we were doing it.

Um nova your relationship with this girl is edit find somone who likes you for real

some people just don't get it...

Honey I dont think you need viagra I think you need a different girl this one sounds crazy

calm down; I completely agree with you, it is possible for anyone, of any age to have difficulty maintaining an erection using a condom. I was refering to the fact that you're a minor, and that "happyharry" was telling you to use viagra, and agreeing with "m3rcuryd3ath" that you're a minor and therefor shouldn't be using it. I completely understand the problem you're having.



Just as a thought, you might want to extend foreplay as long as possible. This will help to get you and keep you "mentally arroused." your ability to maintain an erection and ejaculate/orgasm is mostly mental. If you are in the right mental state, and find what's happening arrousing, you can keep your erection for an extended period of time...