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Q: Trying to Get Pregnant
asked by: prettygirl215 on June 1st, 2005
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I had an abortion about 3 months ago and now I want to get pregnant. We have been trying to get pregnant. I am not sure when is the best time to get pregnant. I have been trying to do some research myself and find an answer. Is it possible to get pregnant after the abortion. I just had my period and it lasted for 3 days. On the 4th day it was light and we had sex and it stopped aside from a light pink discharge the next day I believe. Can I be pregnant? I am not sure if it is possible. I really want to become pregnant. Can someone please help give me some advice on what I should do. :) thanks!!
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mrswilson
replied on June 1st, 2005
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I had an abortion when I was 16 and now I want to get pregnant and I can't and I have always wondered if it was because of that. Anyone know anything about this??????
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steen
replied on June 1st, 2005
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It is very rare that abortions will mess up fertility, especially in the long term.
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lil mama3
replied on June 2nd, 2005
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:evil: look I dont have anything against u, but I do against abortion. Why would u have an abortion and now try to get pregnant again, I mean u would be pregnant now if u wouldent kill ur baby but excuse me thats what u did. Iam nobody to judge u but this is a public health forum and I can say my opinion. Oh an answering to ur question it is to soon to try again u should wait at least 6 months.
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mrswilson
replied on June 2nd, 2005
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I understand that you have your opinion everyone does. But at least you're right you are not the one who judges me. I don't need to hear anything from you cause I regret it enough already but I have moved past it and I have been forgiven. When I got saved and gave my life to god he forgave all of my sins so it's not something for me to hate myself over. I was young and stupid, but I can't go back and change it now. And if I want to get pregnant that's my concern i'm married and 24 now not 16. It's alot better than some of these 16 and 17 yr olds on here trying to get pregnant, you live and you learn. Sometimes it takes a big mistake to knock sense into you.
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prettygirl215
replied on June 2nd, 2005
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I agree with you mrswilson. I mean I have beat myself up enough over having an abortion and at the time I thought it was ok but now I see that it was a big mistake but god has forgiven me so I forgive myslef and I will move past that. I do want to become pregnant and that is what I strongly want. I feel that it is the right time. I have checked on other information and they say that it is not going to affect me trying to become pregnant unless the doc said something went wrong.
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lil mama3
replied on June 4th, 2005
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Mrswilson
My reply on 6-02, was not for u it was for prettygril215 :wink:
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lil mama3
replied on June 4th, 2005
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Prettygril215
:wink:look if I offeded u I did'nt mean to, is just that iam really against abortion I feel that is very cruel for the baby :cry: and that their is other choices now an days. I just tought it was to close together from the abortion and trying to get pregnant again. N-e-way iam the type of person who speaks my mind, and I talk to u how it is, I mean thats just me. So if u say u regret and say god's forgiving u then thats good for u I give u ur respect for that :wink: belive me I know every one makes mistakes, because we are humans, and every one deservse a second chance, I didnt come on this forum to qridazize (sorry cant spell that) any one, I was just speaking my mind baby gril :wink: n-e-way good luck on ur baby this time......
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NovaScotiaMom
replied on June 30th, 2005
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I can't fathem any possible situation where a woman would have an abortion for whatever reason and only three months later try to get pregnant?????? How old are you. You sound very young? You may want to rethink this whole baby thing and the reason for wanting it? Three months is such a short time for things to be different in your life.
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Nicknack
replied on July 22nd, 2005
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You girls want to get pregnant now? Don't you wish you didn't get that abortion? It's weird because when you were pg you didn't want it so you aborted it, and now you girls are saying : "i want a baby"! If you girls do get pg again...Don't abort it, instead really think first!
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