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Q: I Feel Alone

asked by: confused_girl on May 31st, 2005

Experienced User

My boyfriend and his pregnant friend have been friends for a long time and sometimes he comes to my house and sees me and we have been together for 6 months now and I just think that him and his friend are going to get together because she is going to have a baby and all and he wants kids and I do to but I dont need them right now I am finishing my last year of highschool next year and I dont want to screw it all to pieces either I just need help on what I should do because I feel like I am the one who did all of this and I feel so alone I dont know what to do I have had time alone with him and he seems fine about how I feel about his friend its just I think I need to talk to someone I have a shrink and all but sometimes she doesnt help me and isnt there all the time but I really do love my boyfriend what should I do please help me I am falling to pieces

Replies(3)

poetmcc

replied on May 31st, 2005

Experienced User

Are you upset your boyfriend's friend is having a baby and you're not? Or are you sad that she is pregnant? Your post was kind of confusing, sorry.
Regardless sometimes like you said talking to someone helps- and you dont have to see a shrink, maybe a friend or parent or teacher or school counselor can help talk to to you about why you are depressed.
Also you are very young if you are still in high school, I am guessing like 17 or 18...Try to join a school activity that will keep your mind off him and what is going on...Concentrate on college maybe or whatever you plan to do after high school...This may distract you.
Take care and hope you feel better soon.

confused_girl

replied on May 31st, 2005

Experienced User

I Feel Alone

Im not sad that she is having a baby and I am not and I dont feel sad about any of that its just I am very nervous about her having the baby she didnt like me and still doesnt and all that I just think that she is going to try take my boyfriend away from me and all I really dont want that to happen an I needed someone to talk to I just think she is trying to get him to dump me due to her conditions

sarahk

replied on June 2nd, 2005

Experienced User

Its hard when you love someone....And your probably not going to like what I have to say **just my opinion!**

i presonally, if it were me, would get out. I'm only 22 and I have been in a 5 year long relationship with a guy who has kids. Its really hard, not just looking after them at weekend but the fact that it plays on your mind that the man you love has children with someone else. I'd never do it again, that may sound harsh, but I grew attached to those kids and when we split it was hard on them and on me. I never want to go through that again. Once I had split from him I realised how much my life had changed, I no longer had to do 'kids' things at the weekend, I could be me and do 22 year old stuff and now I wouldnt change it for the world! I feel free!!!!!!

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