I am male and aged 51 and have been with my current partner for just over 12 months, recently she has become very distant from me and seems as though she doesn't want to know me anymore. We are due to go away on holiday in 2 weeks time and I am fearful that our time together there will be awful, she tells me that she is going through the menopause and is the same with all her friends and family. Is this usual for women to be like this or is she just really going off me.