Yeah, I might have some useful advice.
As to legal terms--don't worry--the laws
to be an "unfit mother" are insanely
flexible. Unless the mother has an
extensive criminal record, and drinks
constantly, and resorts to drug use often,
then the accuser would have a case. She'd
have to be pretty darn evil to be in the
courtroom as an unfit mother. That's more
California than it is Idaho, so I don't
think there's worry over that. But don't
forget that your cousin is still a minor.
This means that her parents have control
over what happens to the baby. How I
know? Let's just say my father is a great
lawyer.
The child support? Yeah, there's a
conflict. Well, if she can't provide an
adequate amount for the child, there are
governmental programs in which that can be
provided. Welfare, for example, is one
way. It's not difficult to qualify for
welfare, but nowadays that term seems
derogatory to some people. I personally
believe it's nothing to be ashamed about.
But also, if she has a supporting family
to help her out, these programs are just
an option if all else fails, and that's
the way to treat it.
Well, I'll certainly keep your cousin in
my prayers. Good luck!!!!!!
Patrick
