No I honestly meant that statement sincerly, im not going to dismiss you if you've got medical backing behind it.
And ive only had the ring for a day or so, im not constantly taking it out and putting it back in, I was curious last night if he was going to be able to feel it so we had sex and he said it was ok at first but then it kinda hurt, so I took it out for the rest of the time (10 minutes....Max?) and then put it back in
as for the bumps, he gets them whenever he has a reaction to something, like soap or antibiotics or in this case probably the hormones. Im not sore, and I cant feel it, but I feel like whats the purpose of birth control if you cant fully enjoy yourself?
Honestly im just upset they wont give me an iud