I have been on nuvaring for 3 months now and love it. I love not having to take the pill every day. My fiance only feels it in certain positions and he did ask me to take it out because the rubbing was almost painful for him. But I never had it out for more than an hour.
I do check every couple of days to make sure it is there though...It is still new to me, having this inside me.
The only side effect I noticed was a little bit of milky discharge my first couple of weeks on the ring, but that's gone now. Also...I have no bloating or cramps anymore!!
Robindr, maybe you don't have it inserted far enough into your vagina. Just for a guideline, mine is usually in about half the length of my index finger or more. The "instructions" for the ring do say that if you experience discomfort, you may need to push it farther in.
You could also be having a reaction. I would give it another chance; if you are still experiencing discomfort after the first couple of weeks, see your doctor for something else.