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Q: Need Help
asked by: victoria13 on May 23rd, 2005
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I first posted this in the abortion forum and I had a lot of people tell me to post here so here it gose...
Was raped 4 1/2 months ago and I am 13 well I could not decide if I wanted to keep the baby but I took some time and thought about and I decided I was going to keep it I dont have a lot of support for anyone about my decion but I thought it was best for me and the baby. So I dont realy have anyone to talk to so I was hoping there were some people out there that I could count on. Oh and also I need help deciding and soem name I cant realy pick any out so could u plez help thanks
victoria
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Catrina23
replied on May 23rd, 2005
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I'm so sorry to hear about what has happend to you, it must have been a very hard decision for you to make and I couldn't imagine having to be put through that especially at such a young age.

I wish you all the best! It's going to be tough but just keep your head up and remember that you can handle it.

Do you have any names in mind?
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MissShortie
replied on May 23rd, 2005
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Your a tough cookie im gonna tell you that :) you should be getting all the support in the world right now, I am 17 and I would be so not ready to have a child right now, so 13 I couldnt even think of it. I hope your very confident about your decision, which im sure you are, but most people would have taken the easy way out by having an abortion, so I really respect you on taking such an action to raise the child yourself. Name wise? Oh there is a million hehe, I couldnt just say some though it really depends on your taste. If you need friend support, not sure if you have anyone to talk to you can email me or something if you have a messenger online we could chat if you needed. Just leave a post if your instrested. Keep a smile on your face!
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WanaBaMom
replied on May 23rd, 2005
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I agree as well. You're a very strong 13 year old. I'm surprised yet proud that you chose to keep your baby. Yes there are tons and tons of names out there, just look around online, they will give you an idea. And also, do your parents support you at all?? If not, that is ridiculous. Especially since you've been raped. I just hope you get through everything okay, and good luck.

Jada
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askara
replied on May 24th, 2005
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Oh my.

I am sorry to hear that, at 13 I am supprised they let you keep it because thats an awful strain on such a young body.

I am torn on things like this, I am agaist abortion but I would alow it for rape victems becuasei fea r that every tiem you see this baby you will see your rapist and remember what happened this can lead to resent ment of a perfect innocent child.

But for names, google! Search google there are hundreds of baby name websites.

Best of luck
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StArDusT86
replied on May 24th, 2005
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I am so sorry to hear what you have had to go through, but on the other hand, I am proud of you and admire your courage in this incredibly tragic, difficult situation.

You are very brave for choosing to keep this baby. As everyone else said -- remember that you can do it!
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seksiHily
replied on May 24th, 2005
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Wow u have a lot on ur plate rape, bulimia, anxiety
good luck
btw u cant get breast implants while ure pregnant or when ure 13
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Catrina23
replied on May 25th, 2005
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Where did that come from?
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seksiHily
replied on May 25th, 2005
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Her other posts.
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Catrina23
replied on May 25th, 2005
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Oh my!!! :shock:
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