I'm sorry to hear about your divorce. I am only 25, so I don't have much experience, but I just wanted to let you know there are support groups out there and other people that can help. Try to keep yourself busy and stay positive. Remember all the good times you've had over the years, with your husband and in general. What would your life have been like otherwise? My grandparents were married for 31 years and got divorced 4 years ago. He cheated on her and she was devastated. I can't imagine how hard it is. She's doing ok now though. She has 4 kids, 12 grandkinds, and 6 great grandkids to keeping going for. Keep your chin up. Each day is another day to live for. Think of all the thinks you'll be able to do now and keep your chin up. Big hug!!

7 weeks ago my husband informed me that after 21 years of marriage he was no longer committed to our relationship. Our marriage was not perfect by any means however I did not expect this. Every day is a struggle with emotions changing constantly. The one thing I do know is that I will survive and I will come out of this a better person. Look within yourself and find anything that is positive about this. Do you deserve to be in a relationship that is one sided? No you deserve more. I am looking forward to rediscovering myself. Moving forward and growing personally. You will survive to. I know this is difficult but focus on the positive.

I am going through the same. I have been married 18 1/2 years and found my husband cheating. She is in another state so he travels there and comes home on the weekends. I thought we had a great marriage, everyone thought we were the perfect couple. I have been trying to cope for 8 months now hoping things will change but alas.

I am simply hurt that someone has the ability to do this. He will not divorce but continues his relationship. I do not know what to do.

Also I cannot understand how another married woman with children can do this to another family. No one but the children hurt in this adults game.

Any help and guidance would be appreciated.