Personally I wouldnt go back to him. If he has cheated on you then the trust is gone. I'd be careful aswell, if he has been untrustworthy and sleeping arround then whats to say he had the respect to use protection?!! I'd be very careful, he could have picked up anything.

There are plenty of guys out there, find one that makes you happy not sad.

Good luck.

We were broke up, but still... You know that hurts me

Do you love him and does he love you? You said he joked about cheating on you, what did he say?! Do you think he was joking? I know its a tough one, especially when you care about someone so much. Other than this business of him sleeping with another girl, how does he treat you?

Well he hits me, and kicks me and stuff. Yeah I love him. He means the world to me, but I can't help, but love him. I know he screwed her b/c he told me he did. But.... Thats when we was broke up "he says"
i am so confused

I know its hard when you love someone. Its true what they say 'love is blind' but take it from me, ive just got out of a horrible relationship and at the time I could see no wrong in what my then boyfriend was doing. But as soon as you break free it feels great! Its a sweety shop out there...So many flavours to try!
I say dump him, he has no respect for you, he sleeps arround and beats you. You will find someone who will care for you and treat you like a princess.

In all honesty hun, the guy sounds like a loser...Dump him.

If he is joking around about cheating on you to hurt you he is a jerk. If he is hitting and kicking you get the f' out now. He doesn't give a damn about you. He will probably never have the ability to care for anyone. Would you want a person like that to father your children. Any "man" that strikes a woman is not a man. You are very confused dear. You don't love him. You are stuck in a circle. You want something he can't give. You do what I did for many years. You are lying to yourself everyday saying it will get better, it will change. There is a point of no return and he has crossed it. Please I beg you leave.

You have to take in mind that when you meet someone you aren't meeting them. Only what they want you to see. If you knew he was going to hit you when you meet would you still have dated him. When you meet i'm sure you though he was a sweetheart and he cared about you. Hers a little secret about a good portion of guys. When some guys sleep with a girl early in there meeting he losses respect for them too. They are no longer innocent in there eyes. They will star lossing respect for the girl. Once you stop respecting the one you care about eventually stop caring too. It's not always sex that causes this but it will always be related in some way to sex.

Also, sex isn't a weapon. Don't use it as a tool. When done so it make it loss meaning when love actually becomes a part of the picture. I'm not religious myself but I am hoping the best for you. Really though beg you to leave before he hurts you more than you can handle. You seem to have a good heart just fear change and though abusive you are comfortable there. I would really to give him piece of my mind personally. Nothing makes me sicker than abusive people.