I am a 54 year old with lupus of, I'm sure, decades-long standing.
My disclosure thread is here:
http://ehealthforum.com/health/unofficiall
y-diagnosed-lupus-t154267.html
What we all tend to have in common is this great variability of symptoms and severity of the symptoms,
and we seem to all harbor some disbelief that the "official, regular" treatments are at times, not so safe or good as they might be.
I've survived so far without the aid of doctors. I had the luxury of being able to quit working when fatigue and rash and general malaise became too much trouble to allow me to work (keep work appointments reliably).
Meditation, absolute avoidance of stress and worry, have been my greatest help.
Recently, my symptoms grew worse, particularly blood pressure: spiking dangerously high.
I'm lean, have kept my hair (lucky me) and I'll never go on prednisone.
That's just me. Every patient has to decide how to play his or her cards.
Since the condition (I don't care to term it a "disease" is so mysterious and variable,
what works for one will not help another. Hence, doctors throw their hands in the air.
My remission of late may be a fluke. My respite seems to owe, however, to a simple prescription medication never offered to for lupus-relief by MDs, so far as I know.
I'd like a doctor to tell me/us what that medication may be. My blood pressure is now normal. My face is practically clear. I'm sleeping better too. All is not perfect, of course,
but for DC above, I feel for and agree with your frustration: perhaps sea kelp or anything,
is just as liable to give some relief, as costly or downright destructive treatments vended by mercenary, or hapless/impotent MDs.
I'll tell about "my" chosen drug in a week or two, after I've more fully learned whether its present positive effects are lasting, and its side effects, tolerable. At least it won't harm me, this ten-cents-per dose old-school medication. And oh, how it knocks down high blood pressure, in my experience. I was 200 over 115 last week. No more of that, please.
Cheers,
Reid