You probably don't have anything...The risk you took...Very minimal...It takes some real liquid transfer, like lots of blood contact etc.

Still...You will be wondering, so take the test in three months, and don't do it again I guess.

Lol...I don't think you have to obstain from having sex...Just be cautious...Ware a condom please.

:)

peace

shannix

I am feeling bit better now.
Yeah only problem is I am thinking about this all time and I cannot do
anything untill 3 months - when I can confirm.

I am bit sensistive guy :(
would be better if I get married soon :)

--cool dude

Cool,

i was just thinking, while I wouldn't be as concerned about hiv...You might consider getting screened for std's.

It also might be benificial to you to go to a clinic, and talk with the Dr...Or counselor about the situation...They would have more accurate advise as they deal with these things daily, and it might ease your mind.

Any time you consult an std clinic it is alway private, so no worries about it getting out to family etc...Or even being on your medical record exactly.

The people that work in that enviroment deal with these things...And much worse on a daily basis, so no need to feel embarrased.

Just some thoughts.

Peace

shannix

No need to worry, nor should you run and get a test from what you described. Sure, the risk is one of the lowest (scientifically speaking), but it's even lower because you can't say that the female was hiv poz. Fingering is just not considered the most favorable routes of transmission for hiv. It's pretty difficult to catch, and it doesn't go "looking" for you.

What you can conclude is that you're in pretty need of some serious sex!

Make sure you are protected and go and have some fun!

Thanks good advice for your good advice.

I slowly started feeling much better.Let me wait for 3 more months.Incase I still have fears - I will get tested.If not I won't.

Coming to sex and fun.Yeah sex is most wonderful gift that god has given to human being.
This has been my first experience with a woman and I thorougly enjoyed every moment I spent.Sex is what my brain thinks about 50% of time :)

but everything comes for a pay.You need to take lot of precautions to have sex wih strangers.This precautions are not 100% guaranteed and they reduce the fun in sex.For example what is the enjoyment if a person has to

use condomn for intercourse.
Use dental dams to touch a beautiful female part of the body.
Use gloves to finger her inner secrets.
Can't touch her for fear of getting other skin diseases.

One cannot enjoy sex with perfect freedom and fearlessness.
Oh...I am getting bit philosphical :)

once again thanks guys for your replies

Yes, I believe that sex is not a requirement. However, I do believe sex is an art. As a male with your first encounter, you will continue to think about sex 50% of the time, only because it's wonderful.

True sex requires for you to admit that you really don't know anything about the art of sex. If you would only consider sex as an art and you are the artist, always remember that the artist always makes sure that his "masterpiece" (so to speak) is protected.

Protection is needed for yourself, but you should additionally value the effects of your partner. He/she or whatever does not deserve to catch anything, especially if you are one to have multipe partners.

When you are ready to be in a steady sexual relationship, like engagement or marriage, the art will take you to a place where you have never been before.

Until such time, use protection. Remember, it only takes a lack of responsibility to catch hiv. Even if you are having unprotected intercourse for a couple of minutes and then put the condom on, you are assuming the risk.

If you are old enough to live for sex, then you are old enough to live with an hiv and all of the fears that go with it.

I'm so happy that you are taking my advise and are listening. Don't ever forget!

Also consider that there have been no reported cases of hiv infection through fingering in the 25 or so years we've known about it. Therefore you must think:
- how many times people have engaged in this practice (billions)
- how many of them had little peels of skin from their fingers (ditto)
- how many of them didn't contract hiv (apparently, all of them)

don't worry.