Help...question About Abortion..plz Help..

Again I have to say that if you wanted people to agree with your decision about having an abortion then the abortion forum is better for you. There are people there like steen who will support you and tell you that what you are going to do is ok, not that there isnt anything wronge with that, you just are not going to get that kind of support in the prengancy forum. And yes I do beleive the things I said are true but that is why I am pro-life and steen is pro-choice, we just have two different opinions.

Samita, I proved where you lied, and where you tried to push your beliefs onto her. In the meanwhile, I provided factual information and encouraged her to do what will work for herself.

So drop your false claims.

Steen, i'm done with u. U obviously do not know where u are not wanted.

The most important thing is the welfare of this child, oh no, its gone from a baby to a child! I must be a real liar!
You are a jelous nusiense! Go to the abortion forum, we are talking about pregnancy here!

Once again I tell no lies.

Y'all, have you not even noticed that she has not posted since y'all started fighting? The only mistake samita has made is caring about a baby who obviously needs to be cared for, and yes steen I do think that it is a baby, but that is my belief and that is also samitas belief, you may not think that that ball of cells is anything but we do, and you have to realize that people have different opinions and you can not shut people down for them. So we think that she shouldnt have an abortion, thats our opinion, but thats what she asked for! I think that you should be able to show her your side of the picture too but I think that it would be nice if you could do it without making us feel like we are wrong. She came to our forum, and by our forum I mean the pregnancy forum, and asked us for our opinion, so we gave it to her!

Thanx 4 gettn my back babymama2005!
I hope outside and her baby are ok.

Steen, grow a uterus and who knows just maybe then u will undrerstand :lol:

Hi there! It is not a baby until birth. You must do what is right for you and I do agree that this should be on the abortion forum.
Sincerely,
sandy

So now im illiterate? If someone posts in this forum, then whether they like it or not they are going to get my opinion! I have every right to tell her what I think! I answered her question and then gave her a little bit of advice. May I ask you something steen? Have you ever been pregnant? Do you know what it feels like to hold the power to either nurture or kill a human life? If you dont than you dont know a damned thing about what we are talking about! Pro-life or pro-choice, I didnt seem to catch the part in her original post that said," only answer my questions, please dont give advice"! That what this forum is for and if you dont like our advice then dont come to this doing it forum! Catch my drift!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

that may well, be, but that is not what she asked about. That you claim she did, that is evidence of your illiteracy.

Because you are a man! The only head your thinking with is your little one! And if I was illiterate then I couldnt post to you now could i?

Anyone noticed she hasnt come back
im sure she's already decided
for *herself*

Ya I noticed a long time ago, but I still have a bone to pick with mr. Steen!!!

Pro-choice is great, we all need to make our own decisions; "abortion or bust" isn't ok!

P.S. My mother wants to say something...I am 48, I had an abortion 12 year ago, I had to. At least that is what I was told. I was severely depressed, my husband had another "wife" and another baby on the way at the same time. And I had a 3 year old child to care for. I had to choose between a baby with what the doctors called "oh no's", and a 3 year old who would soon suffer from divorce. The choice had to be made by me and I chose abortion. Raising a baby with problems alone would cause great difficulties for my self and my daughter. We would be alone. I cried for weeks before finally having the procedure. It was painful, loud, very loud. It scared me to death. Afterward I was nurtured by friends and recovered. The depression lifted and my daughter flourished. My son died. I miss him and wish that it could have been different. I have another son now and I guard him with my very life. My daughters don't like it that I am so partial to him but they don't know that it is because of joss, the son I never had. No it never goes away.